Hi gang! How’s life? Busy as balls? I mean bouncy-balls of course, don’t be gross.
How’s your week been because my week was kind of the worst. First of all, TAXES. Uncle Sam really had his way with me this year. Figuratively of course, stop being so gross, sheesh. I’ll spare you the dumb divorcey details but basically I didn’t get to claim any dependents and wasn’t aware of it. So that hurt me big time.
Then yesterday my son wandered away from a night-time church activity (the 12-year-old who should have known better) and was missing for long enough that we were about to get the police involved. We finally found him safe and sound, but any parent who has ever lost a kid for any period of time knows exactly what that terrible feeling feels like. It feels like terror and diarrhea.
Then someone in California stole my debit card number and tried to purchase an month-long stay at an AirB&B. Luckily my bank caught it in time so it wasn’t a big issue, but it’s still annoying and makes you feel a little icky and violated.
Man, sorry to rant.
So anyway, I was a hot lil’ ball of stress after all that and then some, so I went to a yoga class for the first time in over a year. And it felt GREAT. It’s such a good way to get out of your head for a while. I love that it just forces you to focus on breathing in and out and basically nothing else. And the best part was at the end of class, the instructor put a little cotton pad with a drop of essential oil on my mat while I laid there like a smaller, cooler ball of stress, and it was wow so nice.
So here’s a drop of essential oil on a cotton pad that I am placing on your mental yoga mat, in case you too have had a rough week.
It’s this gorgeous family room/kitchen redo from Helmick Hacienda.
Look at it! Look at it and breathe deeply and let go of all the stress and let your eyeballs dance over every delightful detail.


Don’t you feel better already? Namaste!




14 Comments
Lindsay
April 20, 2018 at 1:43 PMLast month someone in Iowa went into a T-Mobile store and used a fake ID with my husband’s info to get a new SIM card and take over his phone number. People suck sometimes. Hope you have a great weekend!
Lindsey @ Better After
April 23, 2018 at 8:15 AMIsn’t it kind of the worst? Ugh, some people!!
Scottie
April 20, 2018 at 2:23 PMUgh. Sorry Love. Here’s to a better year this year! (((hugs)))
Olivia
April 20, 2018 at 2:34 PMDecades ago, my toddler (Mister Independant) disappeared from sight in a large department store. Thank heavens l only experience the “terror and diarrhea” for minutes…but truly memorable.
Great new picture, Lindsay!
Lindsey @ Better After
April 23, 2018 at 8:14 AMIt’s a terror you never forget!!
Debbie How
April 20, 2018 at 5:20 PMYou’re a wonderful person Lindsay. Good things happen to good people. Remember that everything happens for a reason and the changes are usually better. Hope this helps! Keep on truckin’…from a fan. 😁
Lindsey @ Better After
April 23, 2018 at 8:14 AMThanks so much for your sweet words Debbie!
Denise
April 20, 2018 at 5:27 PMAs the saying goes, “when it rains it pours” and it certainly did on you! Glad you found your “umbrella” in yoga! Here’s to only sunny days ahead! OMG I’m almost gagging at Pollyanna – seriously, wishing you smooth sailing from now on.
Lisa Ruley
April 21, 2018 at 12:53 PMLindsey, I always have you in my prayer circle. Good things will come to you. Trust me. We have a saying in Spanish, “No hay mal, que por bien no venga.” There is no bad that happens without good following. You certainly have had a rough year. But I can see you are getting stronger. Is there any way you can do an amended return and claim dependants? Best of luck and God bless.
Lisa
Lindsey @ Better After
April 23, 2018 at 8:13 AMThank you so much Lisa, I truly appreciate that!!
Kay
April 21, 2018 at 7:05 PMNice after shot! I need a nap on that persons couch. And Oh boy, that sounds like a a terrible week, but look at you go, girl! You got this!
CandiceMcC
April 23, 2018 at 4:39 AMOther than wanting to simultaneously hug and strangle your kid for you, I’m most struck by the month-long airbnb stay that I’m kinda pissed about. I want to stay somewhere fun for a month.
Mumzy
April 23, 2018 at 6:39 AMIt has been the worst year yet for you. Well, maybe not. You have had some rough ones. Trials make you stronger and lean on the ONE who will hold you up and get you through. You are amazing and resilient. You are one of the toughest that I know. Love you to pieces.
Jessica
May 20, 2018 at 10:23 PMAmazing! How I wish I could make that happen in my kitchen