Hello there? (Sure, start with that).
I’m back? Better than ever? (Snort).
I’ve missed you? (That one is true).
Life was pretty much a total jerk last year and hit me hard and kept on hitting. It’s honestly a blur that I’m still feeling my way out of.
In a nutshell…
My 15-year marriage ended, we sold our beautiful home, I became a single-mom of four, I started working full-time, I cried seventy billion tears, I leaned on my faith, and really just spent most of the whole year putting one foot in front of the other.
Which lead me where I am today. Here. Doing mostly just fine. Pretty adjusted to this new life of mine by now. Definitely different, definitely NOT what I pictured life looking like, (who’s is?!) but it’s also so much better in many ways too. Divorces don’t happen because things are going great.
I didn’t mean to abandon this blog for so long, but I always knew I’d get back around to it. I think I was just dreading writing this post before jumping back in to blogging.
If I still remember how.
If anyone is still out there??
It’s been so long, I feel so out of the home decor/DIY loop! Are people still DIYing? Do we still hit the thrift-store and give things makeovers? Are we still saying the word ‘upcycling?’ Is chevron still a thing? (ducks) Kidding!
So maybe I’ll do things a little differently. Maybe we’ll talk about other topics too. What do you think? What would you like to see? Let me know. I’m just a girl, standing in front of a dusty blog, asking for your feedback. Ask me your questions too. I’m sure you have a few.
273 Comments
Nicole Kidd
February 7, 2018 at 3:26 PMWelcome back! I’d check back every so often, hoping you had posted something new, but it sounds like you were taking care of more important things! Personally, I LOVED the DIY before/afters! We’re in the market for a new house and will be doing some fixing up, so I’ll take all the inspiration I can get. Welcome back 🙂
Corrie
February 7, 2018 at 3:30 PMWelcome back! And hugs! I missed you and your blog. And I missed the Ugly Lamp Competition in particular. You have no idea how much job it gives me each year.
And, to answer your question, blog about whatever interests you. We’re all just going to be excited to hear from you!
Patricia
February 7, 2018 at 4:04 PMWelcome back. Do whatever you want…it’s your blog. Just have fun with it.
Angela
February 7, 2018 at 4:45 PMWhat a surprise, to see your post in my Feedly! Welcome back, I always loved your posts! I also like reading about other women’s experiences with raising a family, dealing with change, cooking, hobbies, the whole life mess. Welcome back!
Kristin Waters
February 7, 2018 at 4:58 PMI’m so glad you’re back! I’ve been a follower of yours for years, and felt like something heavy must have happened in your life for you to just have stopped posting. I’m sorry for the hearbreak and pain you have gone through. You have brought me many smiles through the years and I hope that now that you’re back we can smile together again.
Marcia
February 7, 2018 at 5:22 PMGlad you’re back! I loved the before & afters in the old blog but it’s your blog so do what satisfies you. Sure it will be wonderful.
So sorry for the rough year and glad that you’re doing better.
Kathy
February 7, 2018 at 5:39 PMI loved all the before and after’s but whatever you will do will be great!
Best of lucky for brighter tomorrow’s with your darlng kids! Keep leaning on your faith and putting one step in front of the other. Sometimes life is so difficult so keep smiling! Prayers!
Kristina Adamczewski
February 7, 2018 at 5:40 PMI’m still here, too! I’m glad you’re back as well. Yes, people still DIY stuff…I just moved into my first apartment and I’m working on fixing up my furniture.
I also think you should just do what you feel. I’m sorry you’ve had a hard time, but glad you’re doing better and found comfort in your faith (I have as well in hard times).
I was at Goodwill recently and saw this butt-ugly lamp and thought of you haha 🙂
Kathy
February 7, 2018 at 5:41 PMYou have a great job! I loved all the before and after’s but whatever you do will be great!
Best of lucky for brighter tomorrow’s with your darlng kids! Keep leaning on your faith and putting one step in front of the other. Sometimes life is so difficult so keep smiling! Prayers!
Carol
February 7, 2018 at 5:45 PMStill here! Hope you continue to find your new “normal” and can’t wait to see more before and afters <3
Tara
February 7, 2018 at 5:51 PMWelcome back! I’m sorry last year sucked so hard, here’s hoping this year is better.
Carh
February 7, 2018 at 5:54 PMIs it weird to say that I was afraid that’s what was happening? I thought about you sometimes and was like “should I, an internet stranger, check up on her?” It’s your blog, and you should write about whatever you want. If a cooking blog can talk about fitness, you can do whatever!
SB
February 7, 2018 at 5:56 PMI loved your blog and always found inspiration in what other people have done, but like the other poster said this is your blog – you do you. 🙂
As for your life changes – I was there 7 years ago. It was hard, it was awful. I cried every day on the way to work for 18 months, but you know what? I made and through and I’m stronger and tougher than I ever thought I was and you are too.
I can – without hesitation- tell you now getting divorced was absolutely the right thing to do for me and my family. I am happier now than I ever imagined and have moved on with the lessons I learned from that relationship.
I also promise it gets easier.
XOXO
Olivia
February 7, 2018 at 6:22 PMI’m glad you’re back! I always loved your posts and missed your voice. I love a straight up before and after but I’m sure I’ll enjoy anything you have to say/share.
I’m sorry to hear your year has been so challenging and I’m wishing you and your family all the very best.
laura janning
February 7, 2018 at 6:41 PMgood to see your post. glad that you are doing well despite the life altering changes that you have made. stay strong and i will look forward to seeing you back on your blog.
Jodi Seevers
February 7, 2018 at 6:42 PMWelcome back! Sorry for the rough year… That’s crummy, I wish things like that didn’t happen. But maybe the blog will echo your life? Better After?
Rasha
February 7, 2018 at 6:48 PMSo sorry about your year. Life is not easy ( I always keep saying this saying)
On the bright side, you are back after one year, I’m back after 6 years LOL and I’m so lost in here. All I can tell you that people are more into Instagram now, So keep posting here and there.I can’t give lots of advises just be true to your self and people will love you like they used to be
Erin
February 7, 2018 at 7:11 PMWelcome back! I’ve thought of you many times (often when seeing ugly lamps!)
Taking care of the real world always trumps a blog!
I’m down for whatever you have to post 🙂
Denise
February 7, 2018 at 7:14 PMSelfishly I’m thrilled you are back! You must have been feeling our love flowing your way, wishing you only the best. The best might not be what you once envisioned but it’s still better than the alternative. Whatever you feel comfortable with on the blog or whatever direction you choose to venture, follow your heart.
And by the way, your family is GORGEOUS!
Susan Fenton
February 7, 2018 at 7:26 PMIt’s wonderful to see you back! I’m sorry you had all the bumps and heartache. But remember…Better After is not just the name of your blog. 🙂 Wishing you a52nd your beautiful family all the best!
Kala Morry
February 7, 2018 at 7:34 PMWelcome back. You’ve been missed. As everyone has and will say we are sorry you’ve had such a crap year. I hope you’ll continue bringing us the great before and afters you always have. I think since you’ve been gone the blog o sphere has been missing some good thift store up-cycles.
Hil
February 7, 2018 at 7:40 PMWelcome back! I’m so sorry to hear about the difficulties, but it sounds like you are back on your feet and adjusting. I wish you nothing but the best from here on out, and I look forward to more of your writing on whatever you feel inspired to write about 🙂
Riley
February 7, 2018 at 7:46 PMI’ve missed you and your sense of humor. I always looked forward to your posts and have missed them. I love what someone else said–Better After is not just the name of your blog. Best wishes to you and your family as you move forward in this new direction.
Susan
February 7, 2018 at 7:48 PMI’m glad you’re back too! I checked your blog, sometimes every day, to see if you had posted anything new. I truly hope things go smoothly for you and your sweet kids. God’s mercy, patience, and kindness can heal even the deepest wounds. I’m excited to see what your creativity brings to your blog!!
Amanda
February 7, 2018 at 8:13 PMI was so thrilled to see your post pop up on my reader. Welcome back. I love the before and afters. I’ve been pretty slow at those myself and would love to see some inspiration.
Sorry about your horrible year. Your family has been through a lot.
Sarah
February 7, 2018 at 8:16 PMWelcome back!
lor
February 7, 2018 at 8:38 PMAlways loved your sass and humour. I’m sure that’s harder to come by after a tough year, but when you go through something like you did, I firmly believe you come out better and stronger (that’s my experience talking). Blog from your heart and it will all work out. We’ll be here.
Stacey Clark
February 7, 2018 at 8:46 PMWould you believe me if I said your blog, and wondering how you were doing randomly randomly dropped into my noodle tonight and I visited your page for the first time since 1/27/2017 to find this post?? It’s true, Google told me when I accidently typed the web address in the search bar rather than the address bar. Seriously tho, I’m really glad you are back. And you are ok. 😁
Michelle M
February 7, 2018 at 8:52 PMWelcome back!! Share ANYTHING you want, loved the before and after posts but they’re all over (if that’s all someone is looking for)…it was YOU we all loved being connected to! You have a GREAT sense of humor, am awesome writing style, and an eye for design… mix it up, do what feels right, we’ll be here eagerly waiting for your next post! Go for it and own it! That’s what you do best! So glad you are back, can’t wait to see where you go from here!
kelsey
February 7, 2018 at 10:30 PMI am so glad you’re back! So sorry for your hard year, you are a strong women who will persevere. Take inspiration from your blog, you are ‘better after’ this year 🙂 hope to see more of you soon!
LuRae
February 7, 2018 at 11:33 PMI enjoyed seeing fun pictures of before afters, but what really kept me “hooked” was your sense of humor and the witty ways you said things. I bet you could give us big belly laughs just telling a story about something as mundane as taking out the trash! Welcome back!
Four dogs and one quilter
February 8, 2018 at 4:12 AMSo nice to see you come back. I missed reading your blog, always made me laugh.
Amanda
February 8, 2018 at 6:02 AMWishing you the best. Glad to see you back. Hope 2018 is better for you!
Tiffany
February 8, 2018 at 6:19 AMWelcome back! I’m so sorry for all you’ve been through in the past year; I can imagine that it’s taken everything in you to just keep going. We missed you, but taking care of yourself and your family is far more important. For the blog, I love the makeovers, but realistically, any posts in your voice, with your humor will keep me coming back for more. Can’t wait to see what you do with your metamorphosis.
Amy
February 8, 2018 at 6:40 AMWelcome back!! We missed you, and so sorry to hear about all the trials that have been put in your path over the past year. 🙁 Like others have said, I’d enjoy other topics as well as the makeovers – I very much enjoy your writing.
BEVERLY
February 8, 2018 at 6:55 AMSo happy to have you back! I have checked EVERY day since your last posting, just to see if you would be there. You brighten my day w/your wit and sense of humor. May your days ahead be easier with each passing 24 hours!
Susan
February 8, 2018 at 6:57 AMYay! You still have fans and we can’t wait for your next post. Blogs evolve grow and change just like people do. We will all want to come along for the ride regardless of what you post because we enjoy your unique voice and sense of humor. I’m sure that will come through regardless of the topic.
As a single mom of 3 after 14 years of marriage, I can really relate. Its taken me 5 years to land on my feet, not one, so you go girl!
Jen Calvert
February 8, 2018 at 7:24 AMCan’t wait to see what better after means in 2018!
Mary
February 8, 2018 at 7:33 AMSo glad you came back! What an awful time this must have been. My sister went through the D after 33 years and she said it takes some time to figure out who you are after that. You write about anything you want or need to and I’ll read it. You are funny, smart and beautiful. You got this!
Mary
February 8, 2018 at 7:36 AMPS How about an Ugly Lamp Contest to coincide with the Olympics? Then we can all chant, UH-GLEE-LAMP in addition to U-S-A! We will send to photos and you add your Olympic-ly funny commentary.
Kathy
February 8, 2018 at 7:39 AMBetter After
Isn’t that appropriate. It describes you now. 🙂
I love the makeovers and would like to see more restorations. Mid century modern is my passion and I’m getting into a 1970s vibe just a bit. Looking forward to seeing how the blog evolves.
Peace & Grace
CandiceMcC
February 8, 2018 at 8:32 AMI don’t even know you except from here and I had a feeling that might be what was happening. Sigh. I’m sorry for your tears but glad you’re doing well now. Still here. Will read whatever because, honestly, I need to procrastinate at work. 😉 You’re family is gorgeous, by the way.
Michele
February 8, 2018 at 9:13 AMI’ve literally been checking this blog every day hoping for your reappearance! Don’t worry, you certainly aren’t the only blogger to take a hiatus from their blog due to personal life events! I’m so sorry you’ve had such immense stress, but I’m glad you’ve adjusted and I do hope that, even if it’s harder, you’re better off mentally and emotionally. I’ve been through an unexpected divorce and it was awful, but you do learn to adjust and hopefully eventually you’ll find someone much better suited to you, as I did. I can’t imagine the trials of being a single mother of 4! You definitely have me impressed!! Welcome back! Your blog community has been waiting patiently for your return 🙂 Looking forward to future Before and After posts, along with whatever other content you’d like to blog about!
Abby S
February 8, 2018 at 9:14 AMSo glad you’re back! Actually thought of you and your blog the other week. Love when God sends those little nudges. You’ve been missed. Not for the DIYs per se–though those are great, but for your writing. Share anything you want! You’ll have a reader here.
Michelle P
February 8, 2018 at 9:23 AMYay! Im glad you’re back! Your blog posts were my favorites! Sorry you had a rough year but yay you for bouncing back and pushing thru!
Sherry Murphy
February 8, 2018 at 10:05 AMSo very glad you are back…I, too, check every day and TODAY was the day. Loved seeing your befores and afters. But whatever you decide to do, I will still be looking forward to it. Thankful the five of you are doing well…
Heather
February 8, 2018 at 10:23 AMYou have been missed! So glad you’re back at it and things are on the upside now:).
Roberta
February 8, 2018 at 10:28 AMWelcome back! Sorry about the crap year. Hopefully it’s all good from here on out.
Sarah
February 8, 2018 at 10:44 AMI kept you in my RSS reader and was pleasantly surprised to see a post today. Welcome back! (I’ve never commented before but read religiously when you were posting regularly.) I’m sorry life has been so difficult – I’ve had a rough year myself and although I don’t have a blog, I did a similar disappearing act with my friends and acquaintances while I just tried to live through it. I got very ill, had 3 surgeries, mother almost died of cardiac arrest, father’s Parkinson’s is getting worse, father in law’s early onset Alzheimers is progressing rapidly, we had trouble conceiving, we just lost a baby.
Sometimes life is just really junk for a while. I’m ready for some sunshine and happiness. Hope the same for you.
Dolores
February 8, 2018 at 11:27 AMDamn, am I glad you’re back! The blogosphere could really use your humor and wit! I really missed your befores and afters, but you could write about paint drying (and you probably have) and I would read it! I’m looking forward to your new posts! Welcome back!
Jane Nelson
February 8, 2018 at 11:32 AMI’m SO GLAD you’re back! Sorry about the rough year; sometimes life is a big old pile of suck. It sounds and looks like you’re handling it with grace, though, so props to you for that. Your humor and wit make my day brighter, so honestly, I’ll read anything you write about. Do what brings you joy, and I know it’ll bring joy to others as well.
Tiff
February 8, 2018 at 12:42 PMMy favorite blogger is back!!
Etxeiza
February 8, 2018 at 12:55 PMWelcome from Basque country!
Amy C
February 8, 2018 at 1:04 PMWelcome back! Sorry life was a dick last year, but glad you made your way back here! I missed you and your hilarious posts.
Just do your thing, and I will read it!
xx
Martina
February 8, 2018 at 1:28 PMSooo good to see you back! I’ve been paying little visits to this blog every now and again in hope to see a new post someday and here it is!
I am sorry to read about your rough year, but hey…time is a great healer (speaking from experience) and you will soon be just fine, I mean fine fine.
Greetings and blessings to all your beautiful family from Poland! Yes, you have at least one true fan of your blog accross the globe:))
Aubrey
February 8, 2018 at 1:41 PMI loved reading your blog and will read anything and everything to come because you are a gifted writer! I wish you and your family the very best!
Amber
February 8, 2018 at 1:47 PMI am so happy you’re back! I hate to hear that you’ve been going through a rough time, and I’ve missed your humor!
CFab
February 8, 2018 at 1:55 PMSo sorry that you have had to go through this valley. I went through the same thing 2 years ago. Life’s turns surprise us sometimes. But don’t rush into another relationship, just to fill the void – even though it’s tempting. Love on yourself, love on your kids. It all has a way of working out!
Victoria
February 8, 2018 at 2:29 PMYay! I made on of those “out loud” sounds (snortGasp?) when I saw your post! JUST saw an Ugly Lamp, and thought of this blog. That’ll teach me to pass up an Ugly Lamp!
Carisa
February 8, 2018 at 2:34 PMHappy to see a new post pop up in my feed again! Sorry for the crap year. It was a rough one! Glad you’ve come out the other side and want to blog again. Definitely loved the before and afters but it’s your blog so do what you want if something else is inspiring you.
Lindsey Wolfe
February 8, 2018 at 2:51 PMYAY! You are back. Boo to the last year being a jerk. 🙁 I’m so sorry. I was clearing out the blogs I follow two weeks ago and I got to yours and thought – no, I’m going to wait a bit longer! I’m glad I did! So happy to see your post in my blogger feed! <3 Can't wait to see what this develops into for you! Let it feed your soul and make you happy! Much love to a fellow Lindsey!
Michelle
February 8, 2018 at 2:58 PMWelcome back! I’ve missed your posts and I’m sure most of us would read anything you have to say–before & afters, funny stories, serious stuff, literally anything. Sorry that the past year has been so hard, but know that you are not alone. I was a single mom for several years after my divorce, but I’m remarried now and life is good. We all go through our own “stuff” and you’re lucky to have an internet support system. We’re so glad you’re back!
Kristin
February 8, 2018 at 3:21 PMI’ve missed you! Life can be rocky, so happy that you’re doing better! Looking forward to any kind of new posts, whenever you’re ready ❤️
Deborah Metler
February 8, 2018 at 3:23 PMI kinda figured that was behind the disappearance. Call it mother’s intuition, and as silly as it may sound (hope it doesn’t sound creepy) if I had a daughter instead of sons I think she would have been like you. If your heart is still in it, start slow, do what feels comfortable. If it looks like the old blog – fine. If it looks like something else – that’s fine, too. Get your footing, your audience will form around what you do. Better After, Take II
Mila
February 8, 2018 at 3:39 PMwelcome back! excited to hear your unique and funny voice again, regardless of what you decide to talk about! But furniture makeovers still seem fun 😉
Nicole
February 8, 2018 at 3:41 PMWelcome back! You’ve been missed. Excited to see the amazing things God has in store for you.
Lindy
February 8, 2018 at 3:42 PMWelcome and thanks for being so honest….
Mary
February 8, 2018 at 3:42 PM:::tap, tap, tap::: Is this thing on?
WELCOME BACK!
Missed you, glad you’ve returned. Sorry life has been a jerk lately. Sometimes it’s like that. Dang life. B
But, hey, WELCOME BACK!
Bonnie
February 8, 2018 at 3:43 PMI’ve been wondering where you were! The other day I suddenly wondered when I’d missed the Ugly Lamp Contest and made a mental note to look you up but here you are! I have no questions; I’m just glad you’re back and things are going well.
Marlene Ambriz
February 8, 2018 at 3:43 PMGlad you’re back! I’m sorry for what you’ve endured. I know how difficult it can be. However, I’m truly happy that you were able to “bounce back” so quickly. Truly faith and our children give us the strength to continue on after a divorce. Divorce is always ugly, but if you learn from it and grow through it, it will definitely make you stronger and wiser!
Can’t wait to see new updates! And yes we’re all still here!
P.S. Great family picture!
Maura
February 8, 2018 at 3:44 PMWelcome back. So happy you are. Onward & upward. I love before & afters in any form. And your taste, to me, has been impecable. So keep trusting your own eye and your own instincts in general. You got this!
Brittany aka Pretty Handy Girl
February 8, 2018 at 3:51 PMYou were definitely missed. It’s nice to see your smiling face!
LeeAnn
February 8, 2018 at 3:54 PMLife is messy and we are stronger for it. Though, we may not feel strong at times. We’ve all missed you and are thrilled you’re back. Welcome home!
Jodie
February 8, 2018 at 3:54 PMWelcome back! You have been missed. Your family photo is beautiful, and you are clearly surrounded by love.
Take care of yourself and your gorgeous children. We will appreciate whatever you write for us.
Jean
February 8, 2018 at 3:58 PMStill here. Glad you are back. I like the furniture make-overs best, and your wit. Best wishes!
Genevieve Williamson
February 8, 2018 at 3:58 PMI have missed your blog so much! So sorry about your past year. Although I don’t know you, I’m sure many people like me will be praying for your life to continue to get better for you and your family. I hope 2018 is filled with sweet blessings for you!
As for your blog, I definitely want to see more before and afters, but I’m sure I would enjoy whatever content you would like to blog about!
Angela Allen
February 8, 2018 at 3:58 PMYay your back! You’ve been missed! I hope you’ll bring back the ugly lamp contest. It is so much fun. I love diy stuff still but I’ll be happy with whatever direction you decide to go.
Marla
February 8, 2018 at 3:59 PMYAY!! You’re back!! I have so missed your… everything!! Lol!! You always inspired me with all of the beautiful make overs you shared and humored me and lifted my spirits with your open, heartfelt, friendly like a next door neighbor, way of writing. I’m so sorry about your rough year, but as many have said, the name of your blog is probably even more appropriate today than you could have possibly know back then 😉 I personally believe make overs are still a thing, but I am personally not able to share in the satisfaction of creative restyling, so I will love the possibility of living vicariously through your blog!! Best Wishes 🙂
Sally Pagel
February 8, 2018 at 3:59 PMOh how I have missed you! But I get it, I had a really bad 2017 too! On New Years Eve at midnight I was screaming out my patio doors “2017 Go suck an egg!” But like you I am on to bigger and better things. We will be “Better After” right?!?! Take your time find your footing and post when it feels right! We your loyal followers will be right here waiting and cheering you on! Blessings!
Stephanie Dechant
February 8, 2018 at 4:04 PMWelcome back! You’ve been missed, but completely understandable given the trials you’ve been through. I’m so sorry to hear about the heartbreak and struggles, but glad to hear you’re picking yourself up and keeping your beautiful face towards the sun.
Your blog was the first blog I subscribed to, and I love the before and afters and the DIY tutorials, but I agree with many of the comments before mine, you should do what fulfills and satisfies your heart and soul. If you do that, your readers will follow.
Many well wishes from me to you.
Janice
February 8, 2018 at 4:04 PMSo glad you are back in the saddle. Your natural design inspiration will guide your blog for sure. Missed you!!
Lindsey Watne
February 8, 2018 at 4:06 PMI am so sorry to hear about all of your heartaches 🙁
I came to your site because of the makeovers, but stayed because of your sense of humor and fresh perspective.
Things will turn around for you. Definitely better after! 🙂
Elisabeth Grant
February 8, 2018 at 4:15 PMOh my GOSH! I am so sorry for your terrible, horrible year. I’ve missed your blog and I was so happy to see your email in my inbox. What a huge life event for you – I’m glad you took the year off to start adjusting. I will take your blog any way you choose to dish it out. Before and After – yes, please! And anything else you want to add. Your community is here for you, so welcome back. “Better After” may turn out to be a prophetic moniker….
All the best to you.
Lynn Portnoff
February 8, 2018 at 4:17 PMWelcome back! I’ve missed this blog and your witty writing. I am so sorry to hear about the year you’ve had. It must have been really hard. A lot of people I know had a year like yours and we could all use some home makeover pics and humor to get us through. I’m looking forward to seeing what posts the next year brings.
Heather M
February 8, 2018 at 4:23 PMSeeing an email in my inbox from Better After was the best thing to happen today! Man, I’ve missed this daily dose of awesome! I am with everyone else! You just do you…whatever that means now. I know I will be here to read! I’m sorry for your rough year. You are one strong lady!
Ceci Kamakani
February 8, 2018 at 4:26 PMWe missed you!!!! I did for sure. Life does have a way of hitting you hard (also a full time working single mom of 4! hard life but worth every minute 🙂 ) I LOVE your blog as it was but the way you word things, im sure most of us can relate, so if it gets personal, i’m ready! No one’s life is perfect, so i think it’s safe to say there will be no judgement here! May God continue to bless you and your family (and this blog)!
We got your back girl!
Katie
February 8, 2018 at 4:29 PMWelcome back! Speaking as a blogger who pretty much abandoned her blog a long time ago, I know exactly how you feel. Life has a way of just happening…… I look forward to reading your posts again.
As for my opinion, write about anything you want to 🙂
Leah
February 8, 2018 at 4:38 PMSo sorry to hear of your hard year. Thank you for sharing, shows you’re real. Glad your back.
Danielle Sharp
February 8, 2018 at 4:41 PMI’m sorry to hear you’ve had a difficult year. I hope the future holds good things for you and your family. As others have said I’ve missed your blog and your wonderful style of writing immensely. I’m really glad you’re back. Whichever direction you decide to take your blog I’m sure it will be as successful as it was before. Welcome back. 😘
Barbara Brannon
February 8, 2018 at 4:43 PMWow – you really made my day dear! Certainly missed you and your posts. Enjoyed them immensely! So sorry for your troubles, divorce is tough, especially with children involved. As a good friend of mine has told me so many times, “This too shall pass” – and believe me it does! So glad you are back! Happy Trails!!!
Sandy
February 8, 2018 at 4:47 PMWelcome back. Missed you.
🤗 Hugs.
Lyn White
February 8, 2018 at 4:51 PMLindsey, hi!
Well done, you. Congratulations on making it through a horrible time.
I have hoped for your return and checked often, concerned for you and your family.
I have been inspired by your ‘betterafters’, but now you are the inspiration.
I have really missed your gentle humour
Welcome back
Gina
February 8, 2018 at 4:53 PMSO glad you are BACK!!!!! Yes…yes….yes…to whatever YOU decide to write about!!! Praying that 2018 is an awesome year!!!!
Kelley Smith
February 8, 2018 at 4:55 PMI’m so glad you are back! I’ve missed voice in betterafter. I can’t wait to see and hear about whatever you do!!!❤️
Mary Jude
February 8, 2018 at 4:57 PMIn the ocean of daily emails i receive, Better After is the one I open first. It’s like opening a Christmas gift everyday of the year, ’cause I’m a visual girl. If I could, I’d invite you for tea and a talk, and give you a giant hug. You are not alone. We love you and will love whatever you post.
Sandra
February 8, 2018 at 4:59 PMSo glad you’re back! Looking forward to the future blog. Your sense of humor always resonated with me…glad you’ve retained it even in the midst of horribly trying circumstances.
Khadija
February 8, 2018 at 5:00 PMHi there! I am so so sorry about all you’ve been through. I am happy to see you coming back though. I haven’t been able to do too much diy but I hope to soon! I’m sening you and your family a big internet hug! 😀
Judy
February 8, 2018 at 5:00 PMI’ve missed your witty voice so much! Welcome back to the land of the living and your new normal. I absolutely loved your blog as it was, but you add in whatever strikes your fancy. God Bless you and your new life.
Jenny B.
February 8, 2018 at 5:08 PMWelcome back! I’m so sorry to hear about your divorce. I always enjoyed your writing. It didn’t really matter what the subject was – you made me chuckle. The ugly lamp contest is still my favorite, though. Feel free to bring that back whenever you like. 🙂
Deidre Craig
February 8, 2018 at 5:12 PMPrayed for you regularly. Kept your site refreshed always knowing I’d see you again.
As for suggestions…just be you, your wonderful, creative, funny,fearless self.
Blessings to you and your fabulous family.
lisa ernst
February 8, 2018 at 5:13 PMSo glad you are back! I was so excited when you popped up in my email! So sorry for your hard year. They say a calm sea never made a skilled sailor, and I’m sure you’re coming out of the past year stronger than you ever thought you could be. Looking forward to seeing what you have in storefor us. Yay! Happy day!
Judy
February 8, 2018 at 5:17 PMWell, everybody else said what I wanted to say… I’m glad you’re back. I’ve missed you. So sorry for your terrible year. One step at a time is the best way. I missed your sense of humor; I hope it’s still intact. It will be interesting to see how you upcycle yourself and I’m sure you will be even more beautiful/resourceful/resilient/capable/cautious/powerful in your AFTER. Wishing you the very best and am so glad you had your faith to sustain you. God bless.
Nancy
February 8, 2018 at 5:18 PMWelcome back brave woman. Look forward to reading your blog once again❤️
Kathy
February 8, 2018 at 5:19 PMWow! I was just wondering about you the other day! So glad you’re back and have missed the befores and afters andnd your hilarious writing style. Can’t wait to see what you do next!
Tanya
February 8, 2018 at 5:27 PMGreat to hear an update from you. You’re doing the hard work ♥️
Carol
February 8, 2018 at 5:31 PMBeen there, done that, we all missed you so it’s great you are back! After my husband left me & a whole lot of tears (10 years) and I realized it was his loss not mine, Me & my children married a man & it has been great. 35 years later I can say ‘thank you lord because it wasn’t meant to be’ You will get there! Loved all the before & afters!
Sonia
February 8, 2018 at 5:32 PMWelcome back! It’s not what knocks us down that defines us but how we rise back up. Cant wait to see what the “new” you has in store for us. On a personal note I’m having my first baby at 40 so maybe some fun DIY kid décor? Advice from a seasoned mom of 4 is always welcome. Keep taking us on your blogging journey.
Janet
February 8, 2018 at 5:38 PMHooray!!!! Welcome back, I’m so thrilled to see your OK! Please do keep writing, your hilarious as hell and your blog is so damn fun. I’d love to see more of the projects you are working on and hear more about what you’re up to along with your much beloved before and after treasures. Go on, girl!
Mary C.
February 8, 2018 at 5:47 PMWe’re still here. Missed you but totally understandable. It’s your blog so whatever you can write is a-ok with me.
Barbara Cox
February 8, 2018 at 5:54 PMSorry for your rough year and glad things are going better. I’m just happy you came back. I’ve always loved your sense of humor and the before and afters, but will read anything you want to write about. A sincere Welcome Back!!!
Leslie
February 8, 2018 at 5:55 PMWelcome back! Missed you! Sorry life sucked for a while, but having been exactly where you are, my life was better after I got over the shock and adjustment, ie a year or so.
Love before/afters so that would suit me fine. If you feel compelled to talk about other things, I expect I’ll read it cause you write great.
Maria Bingham
February 8, 2018 at 6:04 PMDitto! I am glad you are doing better after a rough year. I hope you have lots of support from friends and family to take care of you and your beautiful children. I love your “voice” so I will enjoy anything you share on your blog! Just do what feels right for you and we will follow with enthusiasm.
lee
February 8, 2018 at 6:17 PMGreat family photo– and welcome back!
Olivia
February 8, 2018 at 6:26 PMBeyond thrilled that you are back, Lindsay !!!!!
Kristine
February 8, 2018 at 6:31 PMI was just thinking about your blog this morning! I figured life had gotten messy. You’re not alone! Been there, done that and the good news is that life is still good! Our little family had tough days but lots of love & happy days, too. As one of my daughters said, “we don’t look very good ‘on paper’, but we are so happy”! I hope you will look back at this time in years to come and not remember all the awful stuff but remember being closer to God and each other in ways you weren’t before and changed for the better.
Eliesa @ Pinterest Addict
February 8, 2018 at 6:33 PMI am thrilled that you are back! Sorry that the reason for your absence was so crappy. But, as your blog reminds us, some things that appear to be broken and worn out can always be made better by time, love and a good coat of paint. Okay, maybe all things don’t need the paint… but you get what I mean. 🙂
Beverly
February 8, 2018 at 6:37 PMWelcome Back! We missed you! I’m so very sorry you’ve had such a tough year.
Jodie Farrow
February 8, 2018 at 6:50 PMHow apropos this blog is called “Better After!” I think it’s metaphor for 2017. Glad to have you back and better after all of it!
denise
February 8, 2018 at 7:01 PMWelcome back! Do what you did, or do something new, either way as you can tell… it’s your charm, wit and sparkling personality that we adore. 🙂
Scottie
February 8, 2018 at 7:02 PMLast Year was rough for us too. I’m so sorry your’s stunk too. (((Hugs))) here’s to a much better 2018 and getting to know our audiences again while figuring out what we want to be when we grow up! XO!
F Bond
February 8, 2018 at 7:09 PMSo very happy you are back! You were missed! Go for it… I will be here!
Michelle
February 8, 2018 at 7:29 PMLife is all about how you handle those curveballs that we all get thrown at us. I have no doubt with your amazing sense of humor, positive attitude, and your kids having your back that you will be ok 🙂 I have missed your blog. Still love before and afters.. So glad you are back!
Sarah
February 8, 2018 at 7:33 PMI was so excited to see your email today! But also so sorry to hear the sad news.
I loved your blog before and missed seeing the before and afters! Glad you are back!
Debbie How
February 8, 2018 at 7:51 PMLindsey:
Welcome back! From one who has been in your shoes, put one foot in front of the other, smile, take deep breaths and enjoy the ride. The best advice I received was, don’t sweat the small stuff (the books are really good).
I really appreciate you sharing such a personal thing. Looking forward to future blogs. 😁
donna giblin
February 8, 2018 at 7:52 PMSo glad to see you back. I am a sucker for before and afters (and even sent in a few to you 🙂 ) but your blog is yours and you should blog what you feel you want to. I had a sign made for my daughter’s wall when she went to college and she has since married and hung in her baby daughter’s room:
Only three things matter:
How much you loved,
How gently you lived,
and how gracefully you let
go of things not meant for you.
Aren’t they great words to live by?Be happy!
MariB
February 8, 2018 at 7:56 PMYAAAY! I was so hoping you’d come back to blogland! You’re my fave! I’m so sorry for what you’ve been going through with the end of your marriage; those were some dark days for me as well.
Would still love to see more “Better Afters” from your readers, along with your accompanying hilarity! Anything you post will be well-received by me. Welcome back!
Phyl
February 8, 2018 at 8:19 PMHoly ballsack as my normally mild-mannered daughter said just today: I am so glad you’re back! And so looking forward to whatever you choose to share with your grateful readers.
Angie
February 8, 2018 at 8:26 PMWe’ve missed you! I’m sure I’m the first to point out that Better After is the name of your blog, so why can’t it also be about the new you too? We all go through seasons of life & change and who knows, you could be the best Lindsey ever now!
Erin
February 8, 2018 at 8:29 PMSo glad you are back! As others have said, I would enjoy anything you decide to write about, but I do enjoy the before and after pics 😉
Beautiful family 🙂
Cathie
February 8, 2018 at 8:30 PMYou have most definitely been missed. Sorry for your yucky year but so glad you have returned. I agree with many of the other commenters – just be you and write what feels right to you. We will read it all because it is from you. I too, loved the before/after – I haveso many things that are before and none of them have ever made it yet to become an after…lol The most important thing is that you are BACK!
Mo
February 8, 2018 at 8:34 PMSo glad you are back. You have been missed. Thank god life goes on after divorce, or many of us would be in trouble. As stated, it’s your blog and can be whatever you want it to be. I’ll keep reading no matter what, as your sense if humor is much needed & so refreshing. Transformations can be of so many things!!!
Jennifer
February 8, 2018 at 8:43 PMIt’s good to have you back, Lindsey! You have not been forgotten.
Fran
February 8, 2018 at 8:46 PMBig Italian hugs! Sometimes we need a sabbatical from life to recharge. Glad you are making such progress over the past hectic year.
Ana
February 8, 2018 at 8:50 PMHello Lindsey. Yes i am here. I’ve missed you. So sorry for all the pain. Be strong. Big big hug.
Alison Drummond Jones
February 8, 2018 at 8:55 PMBooo … to you past year. When life bites, it bites hard. But I am so pleased you’re through the worst and out the other side. None of us really know where we’ll end up …. but one thing I know is that you make me laugh … oh, the second is the Notting Hill reference!
Jennifer
February 8, 2018 at 9:08 PMI have a strong belief that YOU will be “better after” as you continue forward. I’m sorry for the pain of your last year but encourage you to just get back to doing what you do! You are not alone in this situation. I had a 27 year marriage end in 2013 and I am “better after” too. Beauty from Ashes :). Probably one of the reasons I’ve always loved doing DIY projects like you always present so well. Best wishes to you and yours in 2018. It’s a new year!
Cindy
February 8, 2018 at 9:27 PMWelcome back!! I had checked back, often – always enjoyed your blog. You have lots of fans.
What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger – and wiser. Beautiful family!
You may be amazed where life leads you. God bless you and your children.
Laura
February 8, 2018 at 10:05 PMWelcome back!
Denette
February 8, 2018 at 10:32 PMHELLO!
Welcome back!
Missed you too.
Loved what you used to do. It’s your blog, do what you want. I hope 2018 brings you joy and contentment.
Amy
February 8, 2018 at 10:39 PMWell fark a dark. I’ve been so caught up in my own drama that I didn’t think much about it. Brutal year for you though and I am so sorry. I say, pick up where you left off -if you want- EXCEPT add comments about YOU being Better, After. Feel free to add some snark. Have fun. Be sassy. Monetize this thang. Anyways… I didn’t read your blog for the redonnits. I read it because I love your writIng. Just write. Welcome back. Glad to have you!
Marianne Franks
February 8, 2018 at 11:40 PMOk yay, glad your back! Dang it. I hate hearing you have had a hard year! I seriously love your style! Hilarious, real, and relatable! I love the before/afters. But like everyone says do what feels good to you! Hang in there!
Claire
February 9, 2018 at 1:02 AMI’m really really glad your back. I’ve missed your blog, I used to real enjoy and look forward to reading it I love your writing. Sorry you’ve had such a s****y year but glad to hear your life’s on the mend. Life can be a bit crap sometimes but you know that will pass and you’ll get through it.
Berry
February 9, 2018 at 1:06 AMWelcome Back! Many sympathies, divorce really sucks. Talk about what pleases you, it is your blog. I enjoyed and still enjoy before and afters, but I’m sure I’ll enjoy whatever. 😉
maria
February 9, 2018 at 1:35 AMHi Lindsey!! I’m so so so happy to see you back! I’ve missed you and often wondered if you were alright. I’m sorry you’ve had such a bad year but I hope blogging will help you distract yourself from time to time. I see you’ve changed the blog aspect, it’s much more polished and cool!! I hope you continue to post about makeovers because I love them, that said, you can also talk about whatever you want. It’s your happy place of the internet, so do as you wish!! I’ll be here to read what you have to say because well, I’m a loyal reader and I like you (you seem like a funny and nice person) Have a nice day!!!
Vicky
February 9, 2018 at 4:54 AMGreat to have you back and very sorry to hear about the mrriage split. I’m divorced myself and two kids to bring up one 1 and one 3 so I know it’s not easy, but we are all here behind you all the way. hugs Vicky
Beth Snyder
February 9, 2018 at 5:35 AMWelcome back! Cheers to a new beginning! I enjoy all your before and after photos!
😊
Maureen
February 9, 2018 at 6:17 AMWelcome back! We have missed your sense of humor more than any other part of your posts. Just post about your life and we will be tuning in to laugh and commiserate along with you.
Wendy
February 9, 2018 at 6:24 AMI think it’s safe to say you have a lot of fans! We’re all glad you’re back and it’s good to know you’re doing better. Life can suck sometimes, I know that personally…but there is “the other side”. I hope you can see it! You’ve experienced your own “before” and “after”. The “afters” are always better!! <3
Nikki
February 9, 2018 at 8:17 AMI missed your humor for sure! Every time I see an ugly lamp I think of you (not sure if that is a good thing, lol.) Hope your life gets better and your dreams come true.
Sue
February 9, 2018 at 8:17 AMDeeply sorry to hear of your personal losses last year. As a previous commenter said, hopefully, in time you will feel like your blog’s name, Better After. We are so happy to have you back blogging about whatever forum suits you. Your wit and humor will always shine through! Still loved what you did before, but perhaps there will be anecdotes about your new life experiences as well.
Terrie
February 9, 2018 at 8:19 AMI’m so sorry to hear of your troubles, but you’re not alone. After six years of emotional breakdowns and withdrawing so completely into myself that I have very little memory of those years, I’m finally starting to emerge and see life. It’s not what I expected, not what I planned, and I’m stuck, trying to figure out who I am now and how to move forward.
Like everyone else, I liked pretty much everything you used to do. You probably have a different perspective on things now, and far less time, so just follow your instincts. We’ll be here.
Angela Flickema
February 9, 2018 at 9:11 AMSo glad to see you back. And STRONGER. Your creativity is an inspiration. I had my ‘sucky’ year in 2015. Geographically separated for safety reasons, but still a civil marriage. Had to run toward God to stay focused. This year my words are ‘Be Aware’.
I love better after and have a small pile of clothing that has grown into refashions in my head. Finally finishing my MA in Gerontology this year, so those aspirations have to wait another 4 months.
Onto the next journey in life.
Linda
February 9, 2018 at 9:54 AMThe before and after pictures drew me to your blog, but it was your design/life insights that kept me here. Life changes for everybody, but this is constant: you post, I read.
Gotta go, need to cry; an old friend that I’ve never met has resurfaced. It is so nice to hear from you.
Lisa
February 9, 2018 at 10:57 AMLindsey, welcome back! I really like your blog and missed it! Blessings to you and your beautiful family.
Renee
February 9, 2018 at 11:01 AMDamn! Sorry life kicked you in the teeth and got you down for a year, Lindsey. But just like a new year, you will come out of this with new ideas, new perspectives, new hopes and hopefully, a great ending. I missed you lots and watched for you daily! I love your before and after pictures. They were a great starting point to get my “befores” to my “afters”! Thanks for showing up in my inbox again. Somehow, I just knew you would!
Ronda Batchelor
February 9, 2018 at 11:22 AMWelcome back. I have learned the hard way life does not always go as planned. But I have also been learning I can embrace the way it is. Sounds like you are already figuring that out. I love the before and after.
Margaret
February 9, 2018 at 11:31 AMI’m so happy you are back and happy you made it through a horrible year.
You are a survivor and you are amazing. Love your blog.
Rachel
February 9, 2018 at 11:48 AMSo glad you’re back! I did a double take when this post popped up in my reader. I’ll be reading whatever you decide to write!
Tracey
February 9, 2018 at 12:12 PMWelcome back! I also missed your laugh out loud funny comments, and I am sorry to hear that 2017 sucked. I am happy to ready anything you post, and I hope that 2018 is much better!
Dawn
February 9, 2018 at 12:34 PMWelcome back. Life. Adulting. Hmph. Over-rated at times. Sorry for your tough year. Can we help giving you laughs?
You’re crazy talented and ridiculously funny. Whatever you decide will be great. The DIY, Ugly Lamps—it’s still good.
So glad you’ve returned. Wishing you continued healing, hope, and happiness. Thanks for bringing us along on the ride.
Lauri
February 9, 2018 at 2:20 PMI’m so pleased to see you back! I check on you weekly, and every time I think about you and send you good wishes.
It’s your blog; I think you should post whatever you want. I like the makeover stuff a lot but don’t mind a bit if you decide to change things up. I’m so happy to see that you are recovering; you and the kids look great 🙂
libby
February 9, 2018 at 2:45 PM<3<3<3
Lindsay O
February 9, 2018 at 3:06 PMOh how I’ve missed your blog! Welcome back with open arms! Lindsey, I’m sorry that life has dealt you some crappy stuff. I don’t wish that on anyone. I’m so glad to see Better After pop back up in my emails! Now, YOU can be BETTER AFTER. <3
Nicole Payne
February 9, 2018 at 3:45 PMI’m so glad you’re back. I really looked forward to your blog and missed it this past year. Just keep doing the AMAZING job you’ve done in the past and you’ll be golden.
Candie Firebaugh
February 9, 2018 at 4:13 PMHang in there, sweetie. I will get better
Carol
February 9, 2018 at 5:39 PMYou were missed.
Nikki Grandy
February 9, 2018 at 6:06 PMDuuuuude! You should have little mini competitions! Like, tell people they have to go to a thrift store, buy something to repurpose/beautify and give them all a budget. (Like $20 Or something) I would totally get onboard with that and post it, having anyone who wants to join in with the hashtag. And then you could feature the winner. I’m glad you’re back.
Lucy Gorman
February 9, 2018 at 6:33 PMSo glad you back! Just keep on being you.
Courtney
February 9, 2018 at 10:53 PMAlso very glad your back, and sorry to hear about your awful year. But I was a little shocked that it’s been a whole year?! Wow, time has a funny way of just flying right by! Excited to see where the blog takes you this year, either way you’re funny as hell and looks to me like there are plenty of readers that are thrilled you’re back:)
Beth
February 9, 2018 at 11:01 PMI’m so glad you’re back! I’m so sorry that you’ve had a terrible year but glad you’ve made it through to the other side. You could write about anything and I would read it. The before and afters are great, but your humor and writing style are what I enjoy most. Write about your life, projects you’re working on, or before and afters, whatever floats your boat, but please do continue the ugly lamp contest, it is my very favorite thing! Here’s to new beginnings!
Jeannie
February 10, 2018 at 8:28 AMSo happy you’re back! You can blog on whatever you want I’m just happy you’re ok and we get to cheer you on. Stay strong Lindsay, we’re here!
Suzanne
February 10, 2018 at 8:32 AMHello from Montréal, QC
Thank heavens you are still there! I thought you were dead! Welcome back! Plenty still of makeovers to discuss and many other things. Grab a chair, we’ll hang out.
xxx
Suzanne
Marsha
February 10, 2018 at 9:38 AMSo glad you are back, but even happier that you are doing okay. Life can be so very hard. Looking forward to reading anything you decide to write
Janet
February 10, 2018 at 10:26 AMI can relate – so happy you are okay. Looking forward to what’s next for you. Write about anything you’d like to – trust me, I’ll read it!
Beth Nichols
February 10, 2018 at 2:15 PMI’m LOVING these comments about the “Better After” name being a deeper meaning than upcycling. I think what made this blog fun to follow is that you gave us peeks into other people’s life. Even if it was just their take on how to change an orange wall into a white wall…it was still fun to observe how other people do things. I think before and after can be applied to many different things in the world and life. If you have the itch to blog, I’m not sure that it matters what the content is as much as you are happy doing it. Much love to you and your new adventure that I”m quite certain you weren’t excited about starting.
Kim G
February 10, 2018 at 5:54 PMOh how I have missed you!! All I can say is you do what makes you happy! I will still follow your blog! I love your wit and your style. Prayers for you and your family and what was once a bad year just made you that much stronger. Also prayers that you can have a little bit of peace for your future as a single mom with 4 growing kiddos. You go girl!
Tabi
February 10, 2018 at 11:02 PMI’m so glad you are back! I’m sorry life was a jerk. Write about anything you want, I’ll read it. Heck, you could write about the phone book and I’d read it. I love your “voice.”
Ken
February 11, 2018 at 5:45 AMWelcome back! I’m sure it was hard to write that first blog, but here you are better than before because you know how strong you can be!! So take your new eyes and show us new things with the flare that you do best!
Lyndsey
February 11, 2018 at 7:47 AMSo happy things have improved for you a bit. I loved everything the blog used to be, but I also have complete confidence in anything you want to do differently. You are really talented. And that family photo is SO gorgeous.
ashley
February 11, 2018 at 9:25 AMI LOVE seeing a good before and after… whether it’s an “upcycled” piece of furniture, an ikea hack, a great diy on a home that didn’t cost a bajillion dollars… I LOVED your blog! And still do 🙂 I’ve been eagerly awaiting for your return and glad to see you are back! You do you girl… hugs and prayers to you as you navigate your “new life” 🙂
Jenelle
February 11, 2018 at 2:13 PMYou are one of the funniest bloggers I’ve ever read. I came for the design ideas, but stayed for your humor. 🙂 I will read anything you write.
LOTS and lots of love to you and your beautiful children.
Paula Lusk
February 11, 2018 at 2:54 PMI, too, have checked out your blog. One day I saw what looked like newer pictures on your instagram, so I checked them out. You seemed to be better. After all, we knew you were having trouble, and it seems like you had a doozie of a year. I pray and think that you are on the mend. Your blog has always been fun and full of silly contests, but, do what you are comfortable with. Your kids are getting so big. Take care of yourself.
Karen Wierenga
February 11, 2018 at 6:14 PMReal life is messy, isn’t it? Whatever you choose to do, whatever direction your path takes, do it with love and that sass and humor you’ve always shared with us. Real life is messy, isn’t it? Welcome back.
Sheeba
February 11, 2018 at 9:10 PMSo glad you’re back! Period. 🙂
Kelley N
February 11, 2018 at 9:19 PMHooray Lindsey! Like so many others I checked daily to see if you were checking in. And now you’re back!!! We are all so relieved and happy for your indomitable spirit and amazingly witty way of looking at life. We celebrate your new life and your new adventures with your kiddos! Here’s to you – Better After the hard times, and better than ever!! HaPpY DaNcE!!
Kenyatta Harris
February 12, 2018 at 7:26 AMI almost squealed when I saw your post come up on Bloglovin! Only almost because I was in a public place. Had I been at home alone I probably would have cartwheeled. 😉
I thought about you a lot over the past year. Mainly because I could feel the underlying angst in your life in your last few posts. I prayed for you a few times as well.
I’m sorry your marriage has ended, but glad you’re still smiling. I’m looking forward to reading
your witty posts.
Susan - saf affect
February 12, 2018 at 10:12 AMWelcome back! Good on you to return to this after your year. My life has been smooth sailing (knock wood) and I’ve barely blogged in the last year. 🙂
Barbara Kerr
February 12, 2018 at 10:50 AMI’ve checked in every day since you left. I know what you’re going through on the divorce front (been there myself about 15 years ago.)
Life will never be the same, but I promise….you got this. Glad you’re back! Tons of people waiting for you 🙂
Mary Ann
February 12, 2018 at 11:18 AMSo glad you’re back — we missed you!!!
Maryanne
February 12, 2018 at 11:23 AMI’m so happy you’re back! I still love befores and afters, but whatever you want to post would be great. I’ve been thinking about you and rooting for you this past year and will continue to do so.:)
JoAnne
February 12, 2018 at 12:39 PMTHANK-YOU for finding the courage to write! I think of you often and have been hoping you are ok. I have missed reading your witty/funny posts – the before and afters I always found to be the bonus. I’m with the rest of your fans – if you write it, I will read it. Do what feels right for you. Love the family photo!! xo
Gail
February 12, 2018 at 1:47 PMWelcome back! Divorce sucks but most of us come out stronger than before. I love the ugly lamp contest and maybe start up a different one? Whatever you post I will read!
Chrissy
February 12, 2018 at 2:54 PMSo about a week ago I stopped checking daily to see if you had returned, still heart broken as I was every day in your absence. Your blog was part of my daily routine for several years……..
1. check email
2. check the local paper
3. check my bank account
4. check better after
……and then I would start my day. So this afternoon I thought “it’s been a year…..at least I still have Pinterest”, but thankfully I checked one last time!!!! I cannot wait for tomorrow! My routine is complete once again!!! Welcome Back Beautiful!! This will be your year!
Donna Stephens
February 12, 2018 at 3:18 PMSo glad to see your post. I also checked in from time to time! Sorry the past year has been difficult for you and I am sure for your kids! Here’s to a better year in 2018!
Lori
February 12, 2018 at 5:13 PMWelcome back! You are stronger than you know. I am so proud of all you have accomplished!!
Kelly
February 12, 2018 at 6:52 PMSo glad you’re back! I miss your “real life” makeovers. Like real people with orange oak cabinets and less than million dollar budgets (me!) I miss you funny/snarky/cheery/sarcastic/hilarious writing. I know you still have healing to do so i’ll just be here waiting patiently! 🙂
Diane
February 12, 2018 at 8:51 PMThere you are, sweet pea! I had a feeling you’d be back when you found your way. Sorry to hear about the terrible year. Keep moving forward; life has a way of surprising us! Wonderful things are ahead for you and your kids!
Cassie
February 12, 2018 at 10:46 PMI am so glad you are back!!! I have literally checked every other day since the day your vanished. I scoured over comments to see if I could get a glimpse as to what was going on. I am so glad you are back and I want to encourage you with the same thing, write whatever makes you happy! I loved the Before & Afters because I always want to know what is trending, as I try to DIY home investments as much as I can. I also connect with you because I am also a mother of 4, and I just love your sense of humor and silly ways of looking at things. Just keep on being you and please keep on posting!
Nancy
February 13, 2018 at 12:06 AMThis old fart is so happy you’re back and have endured. “Nevertheless, she persisted!” We’re so much stronger than we ever imagined. Take the time you need to find your balance with blogging again. As you can tell, we’ll be here for you whatever direction you decide to take! Virtual hugs, and wishing you plenty of smiles this year.
Peggy Pasicznyk
February 13, 2018 at 6:58 AMYay!!! So happy you are back. I, too, checked periodically to see if there was any action on your blog. Today was my lucky day!! Trust me, a few of us know what you have gone through. We are there for you.Welcome back!!
Kim
February 13, 2018 at 7:14 AMWhoop whoop! Glad you’re back!
Daleen
February 13, 2018 at 10:36 AMWelcome back!
Your blog always, always brought/brings such happy/joy/laughter.
Selfishly, so glad you found your way back.
Life can be brutal. Hope all of us readers can help you smooth out the edges and bathe you in a bit of grace and goodness.
You are loved. You are of value. You are APPRECIATED.
Thanks for making me smile today.
Andria
February 13, 2018 at 4:41 PMI remember just praying for you and knowing that something big was going down, and hoped that you would eventually return to the blog…you have been missed and your return is awesomely celebrated! I’m sorry for all the hardship you’ve endured, and am inspired by your strong spirit. So glad you’re back, you are such a light! Yes, still DIY-ing, and hoping beyond hope that you will resurrect the Ugly Lamp Contest!
Just Justin
February 13, 2018 at 8:16 PMWhat a minute?!?! You were gone for a year?!?! Where have I been??? JK!
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!! I’m so excited you are back!
You do you, girl! Do you! I’ll do me…you do you. I’m good at being me. You seem good at being you.
“You take the good. You take the bad.
You take them both and there you have.
The facts of life. The facts of life.
When the world never seems,
To be living up to your dream,
Then suddenly you’re finding out
The facts of life are all about you.”
Julie McCubbins
February 14, 2018 at 8:37 AM“Long time reader, first time commenter.” 🙂 I was SO happily surprised to see your post come up in my email! (BTW…. My name is Julie, and I’m an AOL email user! Honestly thought AOL had something to do with not receiving your blog for so long. haha Pretty sure I’m the lone survivor on AOL.) Girl, I know what your year was like while you were gone. I, too, had a marriage end and had little ones. It’s a devastating time and a blur of rollercoaster emotions! But, God is GOOD, and we become a little stronger and wiser and continue on to take care of our babies. I will keep you in my prayers. Thank you for pulling on your boots and getting back to so much in your life that brings joy to yourself and others, like this blog. I’m looking forward to having you back in my life. 🙂
Chris
February 14, 2018 at 10:17 AMHey! Glad to see you back! Been checking here periodically for a while, and praying for you too. 🙂
Wishing you and your little ones all the best as you move on.
Lana
February 14, 2018 at 11:56 AMSweet baby Jesus your back!!! Absolutely ecstatic!
BB
February 14, 2018 at 12:39 PMAgghhhhhhhh!!!! You’re back!!! I. AM. SO. HAPPY!!! But like kinda sad that you had a crap year. Although….you made it through! So Yay on you, you badass Mama, you!!! Welcome back hugs!!!
Anyway, I love the DIYs. I NEED the DIYs because I cannot afford retail so upcycling is still my jam. In my humble opinion – chevron is out BUT I will gladly enjoy anything you blog on even if it includes a zigzag pattern of some sort. If you include other topic matter and such, I will still read because I like you and I think we probably like similar stuff so go for what you feel.
Sending all the good vibes, energy, and light your way, Lindsey. You are wonderful 🙂
Kimberly
February 14, 2018 at 1:37 PMLindsey, I am STOKED that you are back!! I will read whatever you post because you are witty, charming and so stinking bright in every sense of the word. However, I dearly loved all the before and afters.
~~No matter what, BETTER AFTER will now be your war cry, girlie!! 😉
Michelle Hayes
February 14, 2018 at 1:40 PM‼️‼️❤️ WeLcOmE BaCk❤️‼️‼️
You were sorely missed!! Sending hugs ~ I think you could use ~ and deserve ~ many! I’m not one to say that “everything happens for a reason “ because I don’t think that it does. That statement ~ imo ~ removes ones responsibility from their own actions and/or choices. As you stated ~ this was not how you saw your life. As your virtual friends we are here to support you. Whatever direction you wanna take your blog or write about on your blog……we are here!😊 Remember “It makes such a difference”, said Pooh, “to have someone who believes in you”. I do!
Danielle
February 15, 2018 at 12:03 PMWelcome BACK!! I’ve been following your blog (via daily emails) from the beginning. I think you should do whatever you want! But I do have to say that you are still the only blog that gives daily instant gratification of before and after. I think that makes you special (one of the many reasons!). And lady, you crack me up! So I’m thrilled to see you back in my inbox.
SALLY
February 15, 2018 at 1:46 PMWELCOMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
BAAAAAAAACKKKKKKKKKKKKK
YIPPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
leeuna
February 15, 2018 at 7:36 PMYay! you’re back. I’m so happy to see you but sorry for what you have gone through/are going through. I like anything you blog about. I love your sense of humor and the way you write. Do what makes you happy and those of us who love you will be happy too.
Petra
February 17, 2018 at 8:16 AMEvery once in a while I was looking if there is “life” again on Better After. And today it was!!!! I’m sorry for the last year that was surely hard for you. I love your blog and your kind of humor and your style of writing and for me it is really joy you are back again. I wish you and your family all the best!! And your blog will always be one of a kind with your ability to write. So write what interests you and it will interest us.
Sheree L
February 17, 2018 at 9:37 AMYAY! So glad to see you’re back! God bless you and your family as you adjust to your “new” life. You all look so beautiful in your photo.
As others have said, I do love the “before and afters”, but will happily read anything you want to write! Follow your heart, and we will all be here to support you 🙂
Chrissybozz
February 17, 2018 at 3:47 PMOh my gosh! Oh my gosh! Oh my gosh!! I feel a ray of sunshine on my face and it’s 32 degrees and raining here in NJ! I am so glad you are back to blogging! Your site was a daily treat of mine and I missed it so much when you left-but life can do that to us….smack us down:/…..so glad you have the time to devote to this site again! I hope everything is going uphill for you and your family. Thank you for taking time to put this place together…it is inspiring, funny, and just the kick in the pants I need to get my own cheapy cheap decor upgraded a bit. Be well!
Chrissybozz
February 17, 2018 at 3:49 PMAlso, I just noticed your return was on February 7th…that’s my birthday!!!! It’s a sign from the decorating goddesses!!
Diane
February 18, 2018 at 6:12 AMOh Lindsey:
I’ve missed you so much. Life is hard, but you tackle it with such grace and finesse.
Share with us what you need to and take it day by day. You have so much to offer on all counts, and we are here to help you through it. Together we can be stronger.
Welcome Home.
Love and Prayers
Peggy
February 19, 2018 at 7:40 AMSo glad to see you’re still out there in Blogland! So sorry for all your heartaches. Keep leaning on Jesus.
elizabeth
February 19, 2018 at 7:44 AMI am very sorry to hear you had a rough year, but I am happy you are back! Welcome back! Still here! 🙂
Kay
February 19, 2018 at 10:02 AMYou are awesome- Don’t forget it!
Missey
February 19, 2018 at 1:20 PMWELCOME BACK, GURRRRRRL! I’m so sorry to hear of your troubles and I have some experience with same, so I can’t blame you at all for taking a break from the stuff that could wait!
I think I speak for all your fans when I say we were right here all along and we’re sure not going anywhere now. You have always been my favorite part of the interwebz and maybe you’ll even inspire me to fire up Redopalooza again!
Anyway, high fives all around and let us know if we can help!
Marti
February 20, 2018 at 2:02 PMWelcome back! I’m sorry you had such a rough year but it sounds like you have dusted yourself off and gotten on with your life. Congratulations for that. Whatever you decide to post, I’m sure it will be worth reading. I did love the Before and Afters though.
Cathryn Barbagallo
February 20, 2018 at 5:30 PMI was so surprised to see a blog post…. after checking in and out for the past year, and nearly abandoning all hope. Thank goodness you are back. I look forward to your views on the world, and hope the crap is behind you, and all good things are in your future!
Ria from Oz
February 20, 2018 at 6:43 PMHells bells and cockle shells! How did I miss the grand coming back to the throng of the interwebnet? Sheesh, kick my butt and call it a day! I am soooooo pleased you are on the ‘other side’ of all that hard year. Going through all that icky marriage dissolving stuff can feel like goop stuck to your shoe, and it sometimes is hard to remove. (bit like dog doo doo, really, stinks, hey!) You did the right thing in taking time out for YOU and your darling kidlets! Never apologise for being you!
Now to read up on your new posts! Woohoo!
Ren
February 21, 2018 at 12:29 PMWelcome back ❤
Sarah
February 22, 2018 at 3:47 PMYou’re so loved Lindsey!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Cait
February 22, 2018 at 4:04 PMWelcome back! It is so thrilling to see BetterAfter again. I’m so sorry you had to go through such a rough time. When I went through my divorce, I listened to “I Can See Clearly Now” (the Johnny Nash version) until it became true. Wishing you all the best.
Zibby Aman
February 23, 2018 at 7:43 AMWe missed you! And while, I really don’t know – I pray for the hand of God on you and your life and your children. Even to your ex who will still need to father your sweet babies. God is good and I just know He has created you with a purpose and you will use that to benefit yourself and everyone you connect with.
Welcome back girl!
Casie
February 23, 2018 at 7:39 PMSoooo glad you’re back!!
Cindy
February 24, 2018 at 1:45 PMWelcome back sorry about your tough year ((HUG)) Praying God lets you feel His heart for you.
jill kirkham
February 24, 2018 at 11:27 PMI love your writing. You once described a cat tangled in yarn picture that had me laughing hysterically for days. Sometimes I still look it up for a laugh. You have talent. It isn’t just the pictures, it’s you that I kept coming back for.
Amy
February 25, 2018 at 1:01 PMHey – you’re back! I’m so glad. Tough years suck, but in my experience they are usually followed by a couple really great ones. God is cool like that.You are such a great writer I am happy to read whatever you choose to write about. My only request is that you keep the Ugly Lamp contest. 🙂
Kayla-Leah
February 26, 2018 at 3:09 PMI am so glad to see you back! I checked often over the last year, hoping you were surviving what life was throwing your way. I hope you know your flavor will be delicious on anything even real life hard stuff.
ash
February 26, 2018 at 5:55 PMHi!
I LOVED checking out your blog…and would love to again!!! it has all the inspirational things that i could only dream about diy-ing myself.
When you took your break, I was in the beginning of the same, heartbreaking, thing. when you announced that there were changes in your life, i had wondered if what we were going through was similar. I’ve cried about about the same amount of tears… and continue to… its hard, eh?
i hope to see more posts from you soon!!
hopefully we are all better AFTER!
Layla
February 28, 2018 at 8:50 AMOhhh my goodness…. I randomly check this blog to see if you happened to have returned. Today…. jackpot!!!!!!!
You are so funny, I absolutely love your writing. Sorry you had a rough year… those really do suck…. but hopefully the joy you share with others through your writing will also help you to continue to heal.
Thanks for coming back! 🙂
Christine Miller
February 28, 2018 at 7:53 PMWelcome HOME!
Hug your kids
Lean on Christ today and always!
And smile!
I’m glad your back
Karen
March 1, 2018 at 9:30 AMWe are just glad you are back! We have been waiting for you. You are a tough lady and you have got this! Keep your faith and let Him reveal the glorious adventures He has in store for you❤️❤️❤️❤️
Lindsey @ Better After
March 2, 2018 at 8:55 AMThanks so much for your kindness Karen!!
Jonna Dawson
March 2, 2018 at 2:34 PMWelcome back! So happy to see you back, I enjoy your blog very much!
Really very sorry for your awful year. You are strong, brave and talented. You have a whole bunch of internet folks praying and rooting for you, me included. Shine on, beautiful girl!
Bethany
March 2, 2018 at 8:01 PMI’m so happy to see this blog continue. I’ve been checking periodically for this whole year, hoping you’d come back. May Good bless you in your new normal.
Uptown Frog
March 7, 2018 at 8:09 AMYou’re back!!!!!! I’ve been waiting, wondering what happened, guessing, but hoping not….it happened to my sister, too. WIth four children around the ages of yours. She’s thriving now, as I hope you are and will continue. At any rate, I’m so excited to see what’s ahead and I do love your blog. Yours is one of two that I follow. 🙂 I (and apparently hundreds of others) have missed you this past year. I only had one blog to follow while you were gone. Best wishes for a bright future! God graciously gives us beauty from ashes, right?
Tomye
March 9, 2018 at 1:33 PMWelcome back! I’ve been checking back periodically with my fingers crossed that you’d someday return to this wonderful blog. While I love before-and-afters, it was always your clever humor that had me returning for more. Here’s to a new year, a new life, and a new beginning. Cannot wait to read what you have in store for your blog 🙂
Mary
March 11, 2018 at 8:18 AMCan I tell you – I’ve missed you! I lived a number of years post-divorce with 2 kids and know it’s a mess at first but then amazing afterwards. I also want to tell you that your little blog here… changed my life. I was an entrepreneur already with a marketing and graphic design business which was fine, but difficult and stressful. After I re-married and had a new baby, it was downright impossible. But my grandmother was an art teacher and had already taught us all about interior design, paint, the chemistry of art and I’d always enjoyed and looked forward to seeing what people had done in your blog. It was a break in the day for me – a fresh fun breath of air (and your writing is spot-on my personality! Anyway, on the “side” (because working moms have SO MUCH TIME, right?!) I started saving and refinishing small pieces of furniture to sell. Within a few weeks I had people requesting items, within a few months our little fb had a huge following and at a year my husband quit his job. We refinish and restore furniture full time and support our family this way. And your blog had a lot to do with that inspiration. He gets to see his daughter grow up every day. Now, we’re exhausted, always covered in paint and our home now looks like the set of an episode of “Hoarders” but it’s fun, it’s educational for the kids and it’s life. So thank you. Thank you for doing it in the first place and thank you for coming back. If you ever need tips on managing things solo, shoot me a message – Mary
Lindsey @ Better After
March 14, 2018 at 9:34 AMWow, Mary, reading your message was probably the best way to start a morning ever! I’m so happy to hear that this blog has played a little part in all your success! And that you’re happy and life has rolled onward and upward for you. All the hugs!!
Michelle
March 14, 2018 at 11:32 AMI’m sorry that you had a rough year…but I think you’ll be *better after* see what I did there? I’d check in occasionally and today I was pleasantly surprised to see you back 🙂 I love your style. Keep it comin’ sister!
Dawn
March 14, 2018 at 2:16 PMGlad your back…. and so glad I kept checking to see if you’d return!!!
Caity
March 15, 2018 at 8:14 AMYOU are amazing. Thank you so much for sharing with us your vulnerability and your truth. I for one have missed you terribly! I missed your constant feeding of my makeover addiction. I didn’t know what to do without you! And you always write with humor, grace, and personality. I’m so glad to see you here. We welcome you back with open arms, hurt spots, life experience, and all.
Lindsey @ Better After
March 15, 2018 at 2:20 PMThank you so much Caity, I truly appreciate you saying that.
Leticia Silvestre
March 20, 2018 at 1:42 PMOMG, I’m so happy that you came back!
Continue with DIY, best thing eveeeer, it’s super inspiring to me <3
I really wish the best for you and your kids.
A huge and lovelly hug <3
And please, do not forget my "before and after" from brazil, I sent to you in 2016 LOL
Cabinet makeover with a bathroom counter, remember?
Christin Cartwright
March 22, 2018 at 12:02 PMI’m soooo happy to see you back! I check every now and then and today…SHE’S BACK! My day can’t get much better.
I was a single mom for 18 years. My kiddos were 9, 4, and 10 months when my husband told me “I guess this isn’t what I want after all.” I moved 1100 miles, bought a house on my own, went back to school and got a degree and started a new job in 4 years. Oh, and remodeled my home (finally finished the day after I moved out 15 years later).
It sucks. It makes you stronger, blah blah blah. People would ask how I did it. My reply “I didn’t know I had a choice.” The alarm goes off and you get out of bed and go from there. Now all mine are college and beyond and I found my soul mate. You do what you think is right and if it’s not you paint it!!
I can’t wait to see what new energy and ideas you interject into our lives!
WELCOME BACK
Sudhakar Patel
March 30, 2018 at 11:37 AMI’m glad you’re back! I kept thinking of transformations to post to you. I’m from a divorced family, the best thing that could have happened.
Heera B.
April 2, 2018 at 10:34 PMToday was a fairly crappy day for me. During the evening when I just casually peruse the internet, I usually check back here to see if you’re back. I admit the last few months I hadn’t gotten around to checking back in because my life is sort of a hot mess as well. However, tonight when I decided to casually peruse the internet after a knee to the crotch type of day, I squealed in delight! In fact, my mom asked me what had happened running into the room! I cannot tell you how happy I am that you and your family are healthy and safe. I cannot imagine what you must have been through this last year. But know this, you are loved and you were dearly missed. I cannot wait for what you do next because I’ll be here. I am a muslim and I prayed for you whenever I checked back here and you were still gone. I just prayed that you were healthy and safe and I am so glad that you were. I’ll continue to pray that you overcome any obstacle that comes your way and that they are few and far in between. Welcome back girly, I really missed you. xoxo
Agata
April 4, 2018 at 1:00 AMI’m so glad you’re back! My thoughts have been with you all this time, hoping you were alright and would one day come back and make our days a bit brighter again with your posts.
Life does have a way of working out for the best in the long run, I wish you and your children all the happiness in the world!
Catherine
April 4, 2018 at 11:32 AMSo sorry for the rough times, and so happy that you’re back. And I still love the Before and After posts, even though they give me too many ideas and I go merrily DIY-ing and doing things that are over my head. 🙂
Erin
April 6, 2018 at 5:25 PMAdulting is hard. Single momming is harder. Take care of you. It’s your blog, do what you want, be real, be you, and we will follow. Remember you are better.after! You are never alone!
Bets
April 8, 2018 at 9:02 PMOhmygodohmygodohmygod! You’re back! I’ve missed your blog and your zany personality. Gosh, some times life just SUCKS the big one. It’s okay to cry a bazillion tears, and it’s okay to disappear when you need to. It’s all good. I’m just so happy you’re okay.
Deb
April 14, 2018 at 2:28 PMWow! You’re back! I’ve been checking your blog periodically over the last year hoping hoping hoping you’d come back! I’m sorry to hear about your rough year. Glad you came out the other side doing ok. Looking forward to being a regular reader again!
Lindsey @ Better After
April 23, 2018 at 8:16 AMThanks Deb, that means a lot!!
RoseMary Knight
April 21, 2018 at 10:46 PMGlad you are back. I check in every once in a while so it was nice to find you are back. Life throws some curve balls now and then. Keep up with the blog. Love it.
Tracey
April 26, 2018 at 7:02 AMOh Lindsey, my world came crashing down on Jan 4, 2015. It’s been a hard climb and I’m still climbing. I was so devastated I couldn’t even READ my favourite blogs, let along write one like you. You needed to do what was right for you.
Welcome back. I love your humour, your personality. Do what makes YOU happy.
You and your kiddos look amazing. I wonder if I had kids if I would’ve had more of a reason to keep going each day. It must be hard sometimes to be a single mom, but so rewarding to see them grow and learn and overcome. I don’t know if I’m saying all this all right….but welcome back. So many of us missed you and hoped you were ok
Blessings, Tracey
Lindsey @ Better After
April 26, 2018 at 1:47 PMTracey, thank you so much for your sweet words. It is a lot to overcome, and I’m still just going a day at a time most days, but people like you make it easier to keep going because I know it gets better! Thanks again, so glad you’re here and take the time to visit and comment.
Angi
May 2, 2018 at 4:36 PMI’m so glad you’re back! I have missed you! I hope the year have you some time to heal. So sorry about the divorce, but cheers to new beginnings. Xoxo
Hanh Vu
May 10, 2018 at 5:36 PMi’m so glad you’re back. I”m happy that you’re doing better than ever. If i could give you a hug I would! I can’t imagine being a single mom of 4, yet you’re back blogging. Tough person you are.
As far suggestion, I really hope your blog stays attainable and personable. all of my favourite blogs have gone to the shopping guides, projects and products have become too outrageously unrealistic and expensive to be inspiring.
in any case, welcome back!
Carol Hake
May 15, 2018 at 9:19 AMSo it’s a normal day for me … perusing the blogs, feeling sad that Better After is gone (sniff! sniff!). Then what do my wondering eyes should appear? But the BetterAfter.net blog is active this year! I just took a chance to see if you were up and running and SHAZAM! You’re back. Missed you so much Lindsey. So sorry to hear what the last year has held but it sounds like you and the kiddos are doing great. Can’t wait to see what’s ahead!
Lindsey @ Better After
May 15, 2018 at 4:04 PMThanks so much Carol!! I’m very glad to be back!
Ann
May 16, 2018 at 10:47 PMSo excited you are back! I’ve missed reading it, but I totally get how life can throw a curveball. Welcome back!
Darlene
June 3, 2018 at 10:36 PMI was like some of the others and would check every day to see if you had posted anything to your blog. You never failed to make me laugh and I knew that you were hurting and I couldn’t do anything about it. At some point I stopped checking. It was probably after I had surgery for tonsil cancer, May of last year. I’m thankful that it’s in the past, but it has had such an impact on my life that I’m still trying to adjust to my new “normal”. This was definitely not my plan but I know who’s really in control and that helps when I find myself in the middle of a pity party. Tonight I was cleaning up some old emails and I found one from you from 2/6/16 in response to a comment I made on your blog. I quickly checked and yes, you are back! I have some catch up reading to do. Looking forward to whatever you share with us.
Lindsey @ Better After
June 4, 2018 at 10:17 AMThank you so much for your sweet comments Darlene! Yes, getting used to a new normal is HARD! I’m so glad you’re here and recovering. I’ve never heard of tonsil cancer before, I’m sure that’s been a heavy burden to bear. Here’s to things only getting better from here! Thanks for checking in on me!!
Elaine Wagg
June 21, 2018 at 12:04 PMFinding that you are back is the highlight of today! I’m glad you’re okay and back at blogging. I look forward to looking through your posts. 🙂
AJ
August 10, 2018 at 4:46 PMSo thrilled you’re back and hoping you are well. You look amazing, the new blog looks great, the content looks so awesome and I so can’t wait to catch up on your hilarious, creative wit. I’ll be thinking of you and your kids and know y’all will find y’all’s way, together and separately. You are fierce and you got this!
Maggie
August 17, 2018 at 1:57 PMSo glad you’re back! Yours has always been my all-time favorite blog! 🙂
Lindsey @ Better After
August 17, 2018 at 3:33 PMAww, thank you so much Maggie, that means the world to me!