Let’s talk about sheets babes. What’s your preference? Satin? Egyptian cotton? Whatever is clean and fits the bed? Are you hip to this so-called ‘millennial’ trend of not using a flat sheet? I must be like, so trendy, because I’ve been doing that with my kids for years. (It’s just easier and they don’t miss it. Or care, or think about sheets, ever).
While I consider myself a pretty easy-going person, I’m a drama-queen of the highest degree when it comes to the types of sheets I use. I absolutely can’t stand microfiber, polyester should be internationally outlawed, and jersey is basically the same thing as sleeping in a giant sweaty t-shirt. I said it. Flannel? I’d rather sleep on a bed of snakes.
Speaking of, we stayed at the cutest little AirBnb in California a while back, and everything was adorable and perfect until we got into bed and rubbed up against the roughest set of flannel sheets to ever exist on this earth. Like, they probably exfoliated my legs. To make things worse, the mattress also had this super-crinkly cover underneath, so it was literally like sleeping on a hot flannel diaper. I had nightmares all night, zero stars.

So when California Design Den contacted me to do a review of their 600-thread-count 100% cotton sheets, they did so at their own risk. I warned them of my sheet snobbery. They sent them anyway.
I expected something along the lines of those sheet kiosk things you sometimes see at a swap-meet or on the side of the road (maybe this is only a Phoenix thing? Please confirm if roadside sheet sales also exist in your part of the world?) I’ve never been tempted by these sketchy sheets, but I’ve heard that they seem impressive at first and fall apart after a couple washes.
Likewise, these new sheets also seemed great at first. Light, breathable cotton. Soft, but with a little ‘snap’ to it, like straight out of a high-end hotel. Deep 18″ pockets that had no trouble staying on our pillow-top mattress. But would time tell a different story??
I put them through a few weeks of washes to see if they held up, and was thrilled to see that they have, perfectly. They feel even better now than the day they arrived.
It comes down to the authentic 600-thread count. (Don’t be fooled by imitators. Not every claim of “XYZ” thread-count is accurate. Those ‘1000 thread-count’ sheets you bought at TJ Maxx for $34 are lying straight to your face honey).
Luxury sheets are typically around 400 – 800 thread count, and that number itself depends on the fabric of your sheets. Satin threads are thinner, so sateen sheets may have a higher number, but linen sheets of the same caliber could be lower, just because the thread itself is larger. If you see a number that seems too good to be true, it probably is. Flannel doesn’t even have a thread count because flannel is the worrrst.
Not only was I happy to find that these are truly top-quality sheets, I was also happy to learn that California Design Den sheets are made ethically, sustainably, and with environmentally friendly materials and processes. Each product is created in a socially compliant, LEED v4 certified factory that supports more than 300 working families. Sheets are measured individually and hand-inspected for perfection before shipping, so you’ll never get a wonky sheet, they guarantee it.
Is it worth it to pay more for quality sheets? Yes. One hundred percent. They’ll last longer, get better with age, and – I’m convinced – improve your quality of sleep. You spend so much time in contact with your sheets, why spend an extra minute with some less-than fabric like gross microfiber that suffocates your body and snags on your toenails and dry heels. You know the feeling. *fullbodyshudder*
But good news for everyone! I was surprised to see how affordably priced these sheets are too. So put back those liar-liar TJ Maxx sheets and spend just a bit more for true quality. I’m happy to endorse California Design Den and definitely give them my sheet-snob stamp of approval. Find them here on Amazon. (affiliate link)

And now, here’s my crazy tip for making your sheets last forever and feel like you’ve died and gone to heaven, and heaven is your bed like you suspected all along:
I put them on the bed, wet.
Shocking? Perhaps! I wash my sheets and they go straight from the washing machine to the bed. Obviously they are not soaking wet, dripping up the stairs, making my mattress a soggy cess-fest, but they are damp. I learned this trick years ago from the Pioneer Woman, and I’ve done it ever since for a few reasons.
First, it saves your sheets from the wear and tear of the dryer. In the past, I’ve had sheets go in the dryer a-ok, and come out shredded and torn. Most manufacturers actually suggest that you only lightly dry your sheets. You shouldn’t be putting them in there to roast on high for 60 minutes, what do you think you are doing, baking a cake? You are not.
So I bypass the dryer completely and put them right back on the bed. The fitted sheet, then the flat sheet (untucked), then I smooth the pillowcases out on top of that. This works for me in my desert climate, and my sheets are perfectly dry in a couple of hours. I understand that not everyone lives in an arid wasteland, so this isn’t possible everywhere. Too bad for you, because not only does it extend the life of your sheets, it feels SO GOOD.
Since they lay flat while they dry, the sheets will naturally ‘iron’ themselves out. I’m talking smooth as glass. Wrinkled sheets are a thing of my past. Every time I climb into bed after washing my sheets, it’s like I have a personal butler who quietly buttles around my house, concerning himself with ironing my sheets and such things. I feel so pampered. Really though, it’s a treat. There is definitely a difference in how a freshly flat-dried sheet feels vs. one that got deep-fried in the dryer and came out in a wadded up ball. And they still smell just as fresh!

The left side of these pics shows my damp, fresh-out-of-the-washer sheets, and the right is a couple hours later. Crazy huh?

I wish I had a super fabulous master bedroom to show you right now instead of wet sheets, but I’m currently at a stage where getting laundry done is a huge achievement, so lets just celebrate it for the win it is!
Tell me all your deepest thoughts about sheets, no really, I want to know.
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31 Comments
Susan
April 17, 2019 at 8:30 PMI laughed out loud 3 different times at this post and one was even a knee slapper (diaper sheets). You could write about lint and I would read it. Did it make me want to buy the sheets? Not really. But it did make me wish you wrote more. But I’m in Minnesota and you will have to pry my flannel sheets out of my cold dead hands before I would give them up. They are a necessity here every month but July. Also. Loved your tip about putting sheets on the bed wet. It could work if the furnace is running. In July? Wet sheets would still be damp 3 days later. Humidity. Hope you can post again soon. But with eleventy kids I understand you may not have time. Love your writing. Needed the laughs. Just sat in my kid’s smelly room while he played me his music and told me he just got his cap and gown for graduation. And I had to excuse myself to the laundry room so i could ugly cry. I needed this post more than any person should. Thank you.
Susan
April 18, 2019 at 4:28 AMSusan, I agree! Also, high five to my fellow name buddy. I live in Wisconsin, and flannel sheets are a gift from the gods. I totally get why a person in Arizona may not need them in fact probably never ever would need them. But they get me through the -30 degree not counting the wind chill weather that we have.
On the other hand… oh, I completely applauded and agree with the putting damp sheets on the bed idea. That changed my life! The freshness and the feel of air-dried sheets can’t be beat.
I appreciated the information about thread count. Of course I thought a higher number was always better, so it was helpful to know that may not always be the case. Great article!
Jesse Dresbach
April 18, 2019 at 3:56 PMNever have I ever heard of the wet bedsheet trick! I’ll have to try it, in summers only. In the winter we have to have machines running to suck the moisture out of the air here. Under the trees it gets light for 15 minutes a day in winter. Also, I am still sleeping in flannel sheets since this is the longest winter in history, even for California, and I LOVE EVERY MINUTE OF IT! haha…but I am always up for new sheets!
Lindsey @ Better After
April 22, 2019 at 10:22 AMHi Jesse! Let me know if you ever give the wet sheet thing a shot! I recently had to have dehumidifiers explained to me, because I was really unclear what they did and why anyone would ever need one, haha! Not much use for those here, but we do run a humidifier almost every day lol.
Gwen
April 18, 2019 at 4:21 PMI’ve been doing the wet sheet gig for a long time too. The sheets shrink ever so slightly while drying, and end up smooth like glass. They also have some body to them, and do feel like they’ve been ironed! People laugh at me when I tell them how I make my bed. Their loss.
Lindsey @ Better After
April 22, 2019 at 10:20 AMTotally their loss! It almost makes me want to wash my sheets every day, for that smooth as glass feeling you get the first time you get in bed.
Jen Girl in the Garage
April 18, 2019 at 4:36 PMOoh interesting, Lindsey! I have never heard that tip before – I’m not sure it would work here in Indiana. (?) I absolutely love the smell of freshly dried sheets though, I’m not sure I could give that up!
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Lindsey @ Better After
April 22, 2019 at 10:19 AMHi Jen! I find that the sheets still smell super fresh, no dryer needed! I add fabric softener to my washer, so that seems to do the trick.
Michelle B
April 18, 2019 at 5:47 PMHello from Houston! Yes! They sell sheets on the side of the road here, too!!! Crazy. Can’t imagine that anyone would buy sheets from a guy also selling honey and birdhouses. I can relate to being a sheet snob. Life is too short for bad sheets. I had not heard about putting them on while damp. I will try it. Just have to be wary of air drying anything in Houston. But then again, we are an air conditioned town. Thanks for sharing the information 🙂
Lindsey @ Better After
April 22, 2019 at 10:18 AMHello Michelle! Good to know that Houston isn’t deprived of roadside sheet salesmen. Can you also purchase roadside cowboy hats, velour blankets, bonsai trees, and/or flags of every nationality? Let me know if you try the wet sheet thing and like it!
Terrie
April 18, 2019 at 7:41 PMI haven’t seen roadside sheets in either of the Arizona towns or any of the California towns I’ve lived in. Have I been living on the wrong side of town?? Probably.
I understand sheet snobbery. The microfiber sheets I inadvertantly bought (hey- they were pretty!) would end up wrapped around me and I’d wake up feeling like a mummy. Not a good feeling when you have claustrophobia. I’d have to completely remake the bed every morning. I did love my flannel sheets when I lived where it snowed, but now I’m a 100% cotton girl. I have a set made by Nautica that I love.
And if it wouldn’t get me in trouble with the apartment managers, I’d totally line dry my sheets. A favorite childhood memory is getting into bed with clean sheets. We lived a block from the ocean so the smell was a combo of grass and ocean breeze.
Lindsey @ Better After
April 22, 2019 at 10:15 AMLOL if you haven’t seen roadside sheet sales, then you probably live on the right side of town! I can imagine exactly what you’re explaining with the microfiber sheets and I swear I’m almost hyperventilating at the thought. But I can’t imagine anything more lovely than sheets dried by ocean air!! That sounds 1000% delightful.
Torrie
April 18, 2019 at 8:28 PMGirl. I recently stumbled upon these exact sheets you are talking about, and they are amazing! I am snobby about my sheets too, and only use 600 thread count cotton. But, up here in Flagstaff I use flannel sheets in the winter. I am going to have to try putting the sheets on while wet-ish, and test your theory. Thanks for keeping me in the know!
Lindsey @ Better After
April 22, 2019 at 10:13 AMTorrie Torrie, I never knew you were a fellow sheet snob! Haha, I can forgive flannel sheets in Flagstaff, I guess. lol
Marianne Franks
April 18, 2019 at 9:06 PMOh my gosh seriously it never gets old. You are so funny! I think I’ve told you this before but you are literally the only blog that I keep going back to and reading every word. I’m so glad you’re back. Anyway I have so many sheet struggles it’s not even funny! I bought those bamboo sheets because they said they’re supposed to wick away moisture….well every single night that I had on the bamboo sheets I woke up in a full blown puddle of sweat. I’m talking I had to get up change my clothes wring out the sheets, ring out my hair and get back in bed freezing. So I am so intrigued by these sheets. I also have never ever heard to put on sheet wet that is crazy and I am so doing it. I am so excited to see if these work for me. But besides that you are so funny and please post more.
Lindsey @ Better After
April 22, 2019 at 10:12 AMThank you so much Marianne! What a sweet comment. Bamboo sheets sound like the stuff of nightmares! Please report back if you try the wet sheet thing and like it!
calliope
April 18, 2019 at 11:00 PMWhere I live, humid is huuuuge, all day long, all year round. Can you picture the state of my hair…? I can’t imagine adding more moisture inside my house. Thank God it’s also sunny year round (I live in Kalamata, Greece by the way) so I air dry all my bed linen under the sun and I just love how they smell afterwards. They also don’t need ironing afterwards. In the summer I use sheets made of a blend of cotton and linen and it’s the most amazing, cooling thing that can touch your skin during a heatwave.
Lindsey @ Better After
April 22, 2019 at 10:10 AMAhhh that sounds so refreshing!
Michelle B
April 22, 2019 at 3:40 PMHi Lindsey. I tried the wet sheet method this weekend. It worked really well. It’s a bit of a time committment down here in humid Houston. But I put the ceiling fan on high (those are mandated by law in Texas, lol ) and in about 3-4 hours I had dry, wrinkle free, super crisp sheets. I buy this detergent on Amazon – Tyler Candle Company detergent in Icon scent and it smells heavenly. I only use it on sheets as it’s a bit pricey but OMG it smells good. Crawled into bed last night on those sheets and it was amazing. Thanks for sharing the tip! And yes, we can buy shrimp, Barbeque, cowboy hats, pottery and many other necessities roadside down here 🙂
Lindsey @ Better After
April 23, 2019 at 8:38 AMThat’s fantastic! So glad it worked for you. I’m going to have to check out this detergent, it sounds amazing.
Marian
April 24, 2019 at 6:42 AMMonday is clean sheet day around here and the wet sheet trick worked like a dream! I grew up with sheets dried on the line and it was lovely to slip into bed Monday night and relive the crisp sheet feeling!
mollysusie
April 25, 2019 at 11:35 AMYeah, I love my flannel sheets! I turn my electric blanket on and let them heat up while I get ready for bed … snuggly in seconds! I’m a snob about sheets too, but in a really weird way. I have cats, and some sheets really collect cat hair. It’s gross. It seems like the cheaper/slicky sheets are the worst. I’ve been buying LLBean exclusively for years just because they’re make with some kind of magic that repels cat hair. And my hair … let’s not kid. Take a cat, or your most shedding child, rub them on these sheets, and report back.
Janet Robinson
April 28, 2019 at 5:58 AMI would be covered in mold with the damp sheets thing! I hang mine outside whenever I can (It’s snowing at my house in Western NYS at the moment, so no time soon). I have always been a huge fan of flannel for the warmth, but have recently switched to linen. I love wearing linen, so thought I would give it a try. Not as cozy as flannel, but warms up quicker than percale and the bed looks so nice! My favorites have been from Etsy. I buy all flat sheets and have some heavier ones that are the only thing we need in the summer.
Mawia
April 30, 2019 at 6:09 PMLindsay, nice to meet a fellow sheet snob. I absolutely will try the damp sheet thingee, and will put on the ceiling fan as someone else suggested. On a ‘stay-cation’ a few years ago, I changed our sheets every other day (just like they do in hotels) so I could have that “aaaah…..clean sheets…..mmmm….” feeling.
Lindsey @ Better After
May 6, 2019 at 8:13 AMPlease report back and let me know what you think!!!
Denise
August 21, 2019 at 5:00 PMHi! Hope the blending is going well! Any chance you’ll find time to write again and bring us up to date?
Lindsey @ Better After
August 23, 2019 at 2:36 PMHi Denise! Thanks for checking in! I actually just posted a lil’ life update today!
Anna
December 27, 2019 at 8:51 AMI’m so curious about putting damp sheets on the bed but we live in a very humid climate (southeast Georgia), so I’m skeptical. Even here at the end of December it’s really muggy right now. But I’m going to give this a try! We had been using microfiber lately but my husband wanted to go to sleep when those were in the dryer one time so I pulled out some Liz Claiborne high thread count cotton ones we’d had for a while, and the difference in the feel is incredible. The only reason I had stopped using the LCs is because the fitted sheets are not QUITE deep enough for our super-plush pillow top, but putting them on damp could help with that.
Lindsey @ Better After
January 9, 2020 at 11:03 AMOooh, tell me what you think if you tried it! It’s been a *teeny* bit more humid here than usual in Arizona and I’m noticing my sheets not drying nearly as fast. Give yourself lots of time to dry!
Anna
January 24, 2020 at 2:49 PMI’m sold! I’ve done this twice now, once on a humid day and they were probably dry within a few hours. I do turn on the ceiling fan to help with the process, and I have to move the pillowcases to a different spot about half-way through or the spots underneath stay wet. They are smooth and soft and the best part is I can easily put on the fitted sheet by myself when they’re damp and don’t have to ask my husband to help me. When I have money in the budget for new sheets at some point I’ll definitely try this set you’ve recommended.
Lindsey @ Better After
January 27, 2020 at 9:33 AMAwww yeah! So glad you loved it. I never thought about the dampness helping the fitted sheet go on easier, but now that you mention it, it totally does!