Something I love to ask people who have built a new home and lived in it for a few years is ‘What would you have done differently?’ You learn so much. If you are building a new home, go around and ask everyone you know this question and take notes! You might dodge a few design bullets.
One friend wished she hadn’t built windows that came all the way down to the ground, because they were constantly filthy. Another friend regretted opting for a loft-space which never got used when it could have become another bedroom.
I took a few lessons from the home I had the opportunity to build a few years ago as well. My number one regret would probably be not getting the flooring I wanted from the beginning. I didn’t at the time, because using our builder’s flooring was like, triple the cost it should have been. I couldn’t swallow that, so I just figured that somewhere down the line we would have it done on our own. It’s probably three times harder that way, and I still didn’t end up with what I wanted, not in every room. It’s such a huge element, it really is worth the investment. That’s just my in my opinion, but go ahead and put that in your Thoughts to Think About notebook.
I no longer live in that home, and currently live in a rental where most of the flooring isn’t an issue. At least, it ain’t my issue. Neutral tile, we get along just fine.
But here are a couple floors that were not the business. First, this little front door space in Medina’s home. It looks ok in the photo, but she says it was super scratched and dark enough that it made the whole area feel gloomy. But she lives in a rental too, and couldn’t do anything permanent. So she used ….


Wallpaper! It’s true! 100% style and 0% permanence. “Okaaaaaay,” you are thinking “But, wallpaper is not a joke. I tried to remove it from a wall once and both my hands turned into claw-stumps and bled for six weeks.” Guess again, friends. Medina has done a wallpapered floor before in her previous home and says it removes with ease.
Take her word for it at Grillo Designs.
This bathroom floor also had a case of the blahs. Nothing a little paint couldn’t cure.


Nope, that’s not new tile! Just a skillful stenciling job bye Helmick Hacienda. The secret is thin layers of chalk paint, with a solid 24 hours of dry time between coats, followed by a sealer. And more dry time. Basically, be sure that thing is bone dry and you’re all set!
Now, won’t you please answer my burning question? If you had a do-over, what would you have done differently in your home?




21 Comments
Miriam
June 9, 2018 at 7:20 AMI wallpapered a bathroom floor before. It was amazing!!! I polyurethained it with multiple coats to preserve. Since the linoleum I was covering was disgusting & would need to be replaced anyway I wasn’t worried about what that would mean for the removal process. When it was time for that I just ripped up the linoleum, no extra work. But in the meantime, that bathroom was fabulous! The walls were painted with a paint that had real copper in it & it would verdigris & the wall paper was small cheetah print (EEEK!!!!!), decorated with dark purple accents 🙂
Lindsey @ Better After
June 11, 2018 at 3:55 PMWow, that sounds amazing! Do you have any pics??
Debo
June 9, 2018 at 2:53 PMI had a house where the builder didn’t take the wall all the way to the ceiling in the master suite area. So you had about a foot of space at the top between the bath and bedroom. The idea was there was to be a shelf built up there for decorative accents but the shelf never was added. When the house went up for sale the realtor said the chief complaint was that space in the bedroom above the wall. Anyone in the bedroom could hear the person in the bathroom and they thought that wasn’t enough privacy. What was the builder thinkIng and why didn’t we insist the wall go all the way to the ceiling??
Lindsey @ Better After
June 11, 2018 at 3:58 PMYou have to wonder what builders are thinking!? This reminds me of my best friend’s house when I was growing up. Her parent’s bedroom was upstairs, but it had a big open loft-like wall on one entire side of the room that looked down into the living room. It always made me so uncomfortable thinking how easily anyone could hear ANYTHING going on up there!!!
LeeAnn
June 9, 2018 at 4:48 PMI wanted white cabinets in my kitchen and I let the sales girl talk me out of them. Never again. I have plans for this kitchen and the kitchen cabinets will be white.
Lindsey @ Better After
June 11, 2018 at 4:01 PMWhat is it with those sales ladies? Ours tried to talk us out of a bunch of things too, and into the dumbest stuff! She got weirder and weirder as the process went on, and we even found her passed out on her desk once. Turns out she was an alcoholic and got fired because of it. Yikesssss. Trust your gut!!
Rebecca
June 10, 2018 at 8:12 AMI haven’t built but if I ever do my mantra will be “windows, windows, windows”. And outlets.
Lindsey @ Better After
June 11, 2018 at 4:02 PMOutlets, amen! Walk-in closets are pretty common here, but no one EVER puts an outlet in there. I’ve wished multiple times for outlets in my closets.
Heather M
June 10, 2018 at 9:19 AMWe have now built 3 homes and in the first one I regretted not putting a door in the garage to the backyard. I also regretted that we didn’t put more lighting throughout the house…big mistake! Things I have learned are musts…upgraded carpet & pad, big trim and an open railing if it’s an option (rather than a pony wall). My husband always wants to skimp on the floor and redo later and I always say no. It’s a big expense but one that is just necessary to me. I’m glad to hear you validate that! I’m all about projects done afterward, but that’s just too huge of a project! I don’t want my whole home torn apart right after it’s finished!
Lindsey @ Better After
June 11, 2018 at 4:03 PMYou’re the ultimate pro! I’m sure you have a long list of what to do and what not to do! Yes, if I ever do it again, flooring is #1. And definitely upgrade the carpet!
CandiceMcC
June 11, 2018 at 7:45 AMI would have paid a little more money to have a frameless glass shower surround. And there’s one outlet in the mudroom that I should have had them move over INTO a big cabinet so I could discretely charge the hand vac there. DUMB. But nothing terrible really.
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Lindsey @ Better After
June 11, 2018 at 4:05 PMIt’s those little things! I love the idea of a discrete charging station. I have a robot vacuum (or had, until he died last year, but I keep holding on, hoping he’ll revive and work again) and there really is no good place to charge that thing. Phones, Wii remotes, it would be brilliant to have a charging cupboard of some sort.
Rachel
June 11, 2018 at 9:48 AMTotally second the lighting comment above. We should have added can lights in at least our living room, so that we didn’t have to rely on the lighting from the ceiling fan (it seems like there are decent looking ceiling fans, and then there are ceiling fans with bright enough light kits, and those two do not go together).
Lindsey @ Better After
June 11, 2018 at 4:08 PMCan lights make such a difference! Every builder in Arizona seems to think lighting is optional. Every builder I’ve seen makes you pay extra just to get wiring put in in the living room, it doesn’t come standard. And that doesn’t even include a fixture! It’s an extra $100 or so just for them to leave a little wirebox. Because we all want to live by lamplight???? Dumb!
Julia
June 12, 2018 at 6:31 AMMy husband and I argued about the powder room off the living room. I said no one would want to use it so close. He said I have “issues”, which is probably true, but a decade and a half later he finally admitted we should have done it my way. Guests are constantly asking if there is another bathroom they can use. It’s a weird thing to be smug about, but I was so right.
Also, none of the projects we put off until later have ever been done! And I had to fight with the cabinet guy too! Being pushy and opinionated must be a requirement for the job…
Lindsey @ Better After
June 12, 2018 at 8:40 AMHaha, vindication feels good! Even if it comes 15 years later!! That reminds me of a model home I walked through once, where the bathroom was directly off the front door, and when you sat on the toilet which faced a huge window you had a perfect view of the front porch. No thanks!
Lindsey @ Better After
June 12, 2018 at 8:40 AMHaha, vindication feels good! Even if it comes 15 years later!! That reminds me of a model home I walked through once, where the bathroom was directly off the front door, and when you sat on the toilet which faced a huge window you had a perfect view of the front porch. No thanks!
Miriam
June 12, 2018 at 2:57 PMUnfortunately I don’t have any pictures. I did this “back in the day”, before we took pictures of every thing we ever do! LOL #aheadofthetimes 🙂
A-dub
June 14, 2018 at 10:48 AMWe had an outlet issue in the kitchen that turned into a clutter issue. So when we remodeled our kitchen, I added a pull-out shelf (oh, those are called drawers – got it) in our small pantry that had an outlet inside. That way, I can place the toaster on the drawer, use it, and then shove it back in the pantry when I’m done instead of cluttering up the counters. We also added outlets that had USB ports in the kitchen because I use my tablet for recipes and didn’t want to use up a socket just to keep my tablet charged. Super helpful when using smaller appliances.
Lindsey @ Better After
June 14, 2018 at 2:21 PMI would give anything for a toaster drawer! So smart!!
Chris
June 20, 2018 at 11:18 AMWhite kitchen cabinets were not a great option. Love how they look. Don’t love how much cleaning they take. If I was redoing, I’d tried to find something that was a little more forgiving. 🙂