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Better After Gives Back

I’ve been up to something fun, and I’m finally sharing it with you!

Next month marks five years that I’ve been blogging now.  Five! Wowzers.  I could never have come this far without you, all you amazingly creative readers and fellow bloggers who so kindly and generously share your magic with me. Thank you thank you thank you.

As I was pondering on this thought, it occurred to me that it would probably be nice to do a little giving back.  I’m not talking about a giveaway or anything like that, there are plenty of those. Instead, my thought was to do something a little more hands-on. I wanted to organize a surprise/ambush makeover for someone who could really use it.  Someone who might appreciate a little pick-me-up in their home, courtesy of Better After, aka, me.

I decided to call it “Better After Gives Back!”

So I thought very hard about it. I asked around. And around. Polled my Facebook friends.  There were so many nominations for people in need that it was really REALLY hard to choose.

But I finally decided on Jessi.

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Jessi is a single mom with four daughters.  After going through a divorce last year, she moved out of her home’s master bedroom and gave it to her girls.  She moved herself into their old bedroom, which had the bare basics.  Bed, dresser, mirror.  Truth be told, I don’t think she ever felt ‘at home’ in there, and she actually spent most nights sleeping on the living room couch.

No sir!  Jessi deserves better than that.  Jessi is one of the most vibrant and fun people you’ll ever meet.  She loves clothes and salsa dancing and nerdy stuff and she talks about a mile-a-minute, and she’s so full of color and life that a sad little bedroom was just not ok.

jessi3I told you she likes nerdy stuff.

She was nominated by a mutual friend, Nicki, and when her sister Stephanie explained more to me about her bedroom situation, I knew she was the one!

 

So here was my plan of attack. First, I needed to see this bedroom in person.  Even though I’ve known Jessi for a while, I’d never been to her home, so I enlisted Stephanie to help me out.  We concocted a scheme to make it seem like I needed to go to Jessi’s house, even though it is like, 30 minutes away, and even though I had never even been there before.  It was a really weak scheme.  Luckily, she’s not the suspicious type.

Unluckily, she was all hyper-self-conscious about me dropping by unannounced and nosing around her house, imagine that, and she went and closed the door to her room before I could sneak in there!  Pssh. I sneaked in anyway.

But then I was so hyper-self-conscious about being caught that I only peeked my head in for literally five seconds, tried to memorize as much as possible, and then left the house as weakly as I came.  I’m sure she thought I was insane.

 

Ok, so here comes the before …

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Very small and very green.  And no match for Jessi’s sparkling personality.

Now, here’s the cruel part … I’m not showing the afters just yet!  Sorry!  (Unless you already saw them when in a horrible twist of events, I accidentally posted them first for a few hours on Saturday. Sigh. Let’s just pretend that never happened, ok?)

There’s a lot to tell and share, so I’m planning to spread it out just a bit over the week. You’ll have to get your instant-gratification somewhere else today.  But please come back tomorrow to see more! Can’t wait to share!

Continue on to Part 2 Here!

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20 Comments

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    JennyExplainsItAll.blogspot
    July 14, 2014 at 8:03 AM

    I recently traded with my grown daughter–her double bed for my queen–since she has “someone to share with” and I do not. (We’re both on tight budgets and replacing the beds was not an option.) Although the size difference isn’t huge, both of us really appreciate our more reasonably sized beds. Single ladies: do you really need that queen size bed? Or can you use the extra real estate in your room more? Something to consider…

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    holly
    July 14, 2014 at 8:07 AM

    I saw it on Saturday but I’m not telling!!! What a wonderful thing you are doing!!

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    laura@top this top that
    July 14, 2014 at 8:42 AM

    you are a wonderful , beautiful TEASE!

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    Angie
    July 14, 2014 at 9:03 AM

    I *might* have seen a sneak peek on Saturday but my lips are sealed! What an awesome thing you are doing to give back!!

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    mel
    July 14, 2014 at 10:09 AM

    I’ve followed you for a while and all I can say is WOW. I’m excited to see what you did!!!

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    Cathie
    July 14, 2014 at 10:18 AM

    I’m a time traveller and can confirm it looks great. (It also makes a lot more sense with context now.)

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    Deb
    July 14, 2014 at 10:58 AM

    It’s dangerous to go Solo. Always best to take a Wookie!

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    Hanna
    July 14, 2014 at 1:14 PM

    What an amazing thing to do. Sounds like you picked a great candidate. Can’t wait to see it!

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    Mumzy
    July 14, 2014 at 1:55 PM

    So awesome!!! What a super sweet thing to do!!!

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    Belle
    July 14, 2014 at 3:00 PM

    Yep, I saw it too…. but now I really want to see it again because it was/is so awesome that I need to flip back and forth and explore the details!!!! EEEEEk! You rock! What a blessing to Jessi! So glad you picked her. 🙂

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    roberta
    July 14, 2014 at 5:05 PM

    What a lovely thing for you to do – I look forward to seeing the “after” photos.

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    LeeAnn
    July 14, 2014 at 5:11 PM

    There were also the Best of 2013 Before and Afters posted. I was really confused when I saw that.

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    Janice
    July 14, 2014 at 6:12 PM

    This is such a nice thing to do. I’m sure she is going to love it!

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    Haley Webb
    July 14, 2014 at 6:44 PM

    That is so fun and exciting! I can’t wait to see the reveal! That’s awesome that you came up with the giving back instead of giving away.

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    Michelle L
    July 14, 2014 at 6:48 PM

    What fun, Lindsey! I love your ambush idea, and she seems like the perfect ambushee. Can’t wait to see it! (I didn’t spot the premature publication, so I am your perfect target audience right here.)

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    Susan
    July 14, 2014 at 7:24 PM

    I’m on pins & needles here….I can’t wait to see the after pics. You are so amazing!

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    G
    July 14, 2014 at 8:01 PM

    Nice teaser-can’t wait to see the reveal. Ummm…did I mention I own that same wookie cutout? Did you incorporate it in to the design? My Chewie is folded up on my guest bed (a hint to the state of my guest room right now). Looking forward to the “after”

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    Jennifer
    July 14, 2014 at 9:44 PM

    Super idea!!! Looks like you got a great candidate for the ambush. So much better than a ho hum giveaway. I will be back to see the after pictures. Thanks for sharing.

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    LeeAnn
    July 15, 2014 at 5:38 PM

    Lindsey, I started wondering if you had been hacked. Or possibly, your email. I did see the premature reveal, but got concerned with a getting possible virus on my pc if you had been hacked, and completely forgot what it looks like. hahahahaha!!!

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